March of 1999 I tried to kill myself because I found out my fiancé cheated on me with my best friend. This happened 6 months before we were supposed to get married.
15 years later – after sleeping with roughly 500 women – I met the woman of my dreams. We were married on January 31, 2015!
I developed an entirely new perspective on men, women, and dating during the past 15 years. Here are 33 realizations that have brought me unbelievable success and infinite happiness when it comes to women.
Once you understand and incorporate these 33 facts into your dating life, you will successfully attract and seduce the women you’re after.
So here it is:
1. Self-esteem is more attractive than looks. I had less succ. 20 years later with receding hairline and more body fat I sleep with attractive women on regular basis including actress and models. My self-esteem is at an all time high and this draws women to me.
2. Its never too late never give up.
3. Modern dating rules of dating have changed u need to catch up. Today it is ok to b in open relation until u find right woman.
4. You’ll enjoy woman more if you are happy. Try to be happy at all times.
5. Never settle for less but don’t mislead her. The first woman may or may not be the right woman for you. Take your time before you draw conclusions. You will meet many more.
6. You never know when you’ll meet the perfect girl. Until you meet her, date a variety of women.
7. Beauty is in the eye of beholder. Let her be the judge on how attractive you are. Don’t disqualify yourself before she makes her mind on you.
8. She’s gorgeous regardless of what your friends think. Date who YOU like not who your friends like.
9. Rejection is not personal. She is simply at a different place than you. Learn to handle failure and face rejection – You’ll become fearless. Once I came up with few ways to handle rejection I was never afraid to approach women. In my workshop this is exactly what I do. I keep pushing my client to the next level. They see how far they can go and get success. Their fear disappears.
10. You wont get slapped or arrested unless you are disrespectful or a creep.
11. Women love to be approached and seduced by men. They are hardwired for it. They want to b approached by a quality man. Build strong first impression.
12. You’ll have your own style that works for you. Find it and stay true to it!
14. Being judgmental keeps you from taking action. Your judgments are your worst enemy.
16. You’ll always have critics. Some people feel better by pulling you down. They will critique you for going after what you want or for not going after it. Either way, they will attack you.
18. Women are strong. You don’t have lie in order to keep her from getting hurt.
20. Use your relationships with women to become a better man. Never stop evolving, always strive to be a better, happier person.
22. Not all women are save to sleep with. Know who to walk away from and when.
24. Stop being self-centered!
26. Spread happiness and you’ll have women sending you more women.
28. Sexual encounters with women can be fun stress relievers if your attitude is right. It’s ok to be a man who wants something quick with no strings attached. If you’re honest and comfortable about the situation, she will be too.
30. Road maps won’t take you to your destination, it takes so much more.
32. The only thing standing between you and the woman you think you can’t have is your own perspective and self esteem.