Approaching Women In Bars

Most men assume that bars are a great place to meet women, date and hook-up with women. It’s not true!

Bars are some of the hardest places to meet women.

This is because you have no control over what kind of woman you’ll meet. If you like a certain type of women, a health conscious woman for example, you are better of going to a yoga center, health club or Whole Foods. In short, you need to go to the venue that attracts the type of woman you’re interested in.

Bars have negative connotation attached to them. This makes women more guarded when they’re at one, making the suspect that every man is on the prowl for a one-night-stand. This makes establishing a connection difficult, but not impossible. We do it weekend after weekend in our workshops and hundreds of my clients succeed in dating women whom they’ve met at a bar.

Don’t waste your time going to the bar, high quality attractive women already surround you in your everyday life. Hint: women you work with, your female friends, the barista at the coffee shop, and that female server at the restaurant you go to are just a few examples.

Often men have been burned from dating women in their friend circle or at their work place. This motivates them to try their luck at the local pub.

On the other hand, some men may not know any attractive women at work so they go out in hopes of meeting someone at the bar.

And finally, there is a group of men who have been convinced that it’s easier to meet women at a bars if you’re looking for a casual encounter or one-night-stand.

Now let me set the record straight.

80% of the women I have dated or slept with I met through mutual friends.

Why does this work? Because meeting someone through a friend is the easiest and most effective way to connect with someone new.

There is a reason why most magazines and dating columns suggest establishing a friendship first.

The only problem with this method is that most men are terrified about getting friend-zoned, or worse, getting stuck there.

Many dating coaches advocate that you should avoid becoming friends with women because there is no easy way to upgrade friendship to a sexual one.

This is the biggest lie I have ever heard.

There is no hope for you in the dating world if you cannot turn your female friends into lovers.

When you are friends with a woman you’ve already established trust. All you have to do now is generate attraction.

This is where most men drop the ball.

Most men trip up when they start treating women like little sisters. This usually happens when they become too protective.

The key to making her want you is to use attraction tools. Tools such as eye contact, touching, tonality and social dynamics.

Here is an example: I used to work in an office with a cute woman who everyone wanted to sleep with. Every man including my boss was trying desperately to hit on her. I used the social dynamics to my advantage and flirted with every woman in the office except for her. This made her insanely jealous causing her to seek me out in response.

Another example: One time I went to a bar with a female friend. I was very touchy and flirty with her which made other women notice me. When the other women found out that she was just a friend they started going out of their way to get my attention.

Another example: There used to be a cute bartender at a my neighborhood bar. Once she saw me coming in with new female friends night after night she began to see me as a ladies man – effectively making her desire me. She ended up asking ME out. This happens all the time.

Men spend a lot of time approaching women in bars when what they should be focused on is building a lifestyles that is attractive to women.

The key is to identify the kind of women you want and to build a lifestyle that includes her.

Then all you have to do is bring them into your life and turn them on.

This system is fool proof and can deliver mind boggling results.

No longer do you have to make an attempt to build your value. No longer do you need stories or routines in order to stand out. You’ll get noticed, you’ll stand apart and you’ll make a woman want you as a result of the choices you make around her.

It does not get any easier than this.

Women aren’t usually on the prowl. The men who are the most attractive to women are the ones they already know.

This is what you need to do.

You need to arrange your appearance so that you are “special” in the eyes of the women you want to attract.

You need to do this so well that you do it without realizing it.

I have developed a strategy for this where you’ll learn how to meet attractive in day-o-day scenarios (not in bars.)

My strategy includes shaping your personality, lifestyle and mindset to make you desirable to everyday, beautiful women. This system will redesign your life to help you attract the women of your dreams. Once you’ve mastered this,  meeting women and dating the type of woman you desire, will become effortless.

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