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One-sided love can be a detrimental cycle that many men find themselves trapped in.
The yearning for someone who does not reciprocate their feelings can lead to a host of negative consequences.
In this blog, we will explore the reasons behind this obsession, the harm it can cause, and strategies to overcome it.
When someone becomes fixated on another person, it is not truly about the person themselves, but rather about the longing and desire they represent.
This deep longing often stems from unresolved emotional issues or a sense of void within oneself.
For instance, a person may have experienced a lack of love during their childhood, leading them to believe that finding a romantic partner would fill the void.
This idealization can be further fueled by various qualities or attributes that the person associates with the object of their affection.
They may perceive the person as beautiful, intelligent, or successful, and therefore attach immense value to them.
Subconsciously, they believe that attaining this person will validate their self-worth and bring them happiness.
However, placing someone on such a pedestal only serves to diminish one’s own value.
The more one obsesses over a person, the less authentic they become in their interactions.
Instead of attracting the person, they end up chasing them, desperately trying to win them over.
This imbalanced power dynamic often leads to further pain and disappointment.
Even if the person does enter into a relationship, the individual will constantly fear losing them.
They will be unable to truly be themselves, constantly making compromises and living in fear of abandonment.
This pattern of behavior erodes self-esteem and perpetuates the belief that one is not good enough.
If you find yourself continuously experiencing one-sided love and the accompanying pain, it is crucial to break free from this cycle.
Here are some strategies to help you overcome this unhealthy obsession:
Instead of fixating on the person who is not reciprocating your feelings, redirect your attention towards envisioning the love life you desire.
Imagine being with someone who truly appreciates and loves you. By shifting your focus, you can create a sense of excitement and hope for the future.
Engage in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. Find hobbies, spend time with friends, or pursue passions that make you feel good.
By investing in your own happiness, you will develop a sense of self-worth that is independent of your romantic pursuits.
Reflect on any other areas of your life that may be causing you distress or feelings of inadequacy.
Whether it’s financial struggles, career setbacks, or a lack of social connections, addressing these challenges can alleviate the overall burden and improve your emotional well-being.
Recognize the negative habits and behaviors that stem from your insecurities.
Seek guidance or self-reflect to identify these patterns and learn healthier ways to interact with women.
By becoming a man who attracts women through confidence and self-assuredness, rather than chasing them, you can establish more fulfilling relationships.
Overcoming one-sided love is a journey towards personal growth and self-discovery.
By addressing the root causes of your obsession and adopting healthier approaches to relationships, you can break free from the cycle that has been holding you back.
Remember, it is not about finding someone to fill a void, but rather becoming the best version of yourself and attracting a partner who appreciates you for who you are.
By letting go of the notion that external validation is the key to happiness, you can build a strong foundation of self-worth and create meaningful connections based on mutual love and respect.
Don’t let one-sided love define your life. Take the necessary steps to break free and embark on a path of self-fulfillment.
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Magic Leone
Magic!
Thank you so much for sharing your videos.
I actually ended up getting an One Night Stand right afterwatching your DVDs.
Seemed to work really well haha.
My handle is XXX if you want to read the report. Please let me know what you schedule is going to be like afteryou return from visiting your family.
I’d really like to schedule one of your training sessions.
Thanks again,
– Chris
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Thanks Magic! I made love with a girl this weekend who was my friend from long time.
With my new look and aggressiveness i think i was able to come out the safe guy mode.
You changed my life!
Sai Manohar
Hi Magic, I can’t begin to tell you how much I’ve learned from you so far.
I’ve read ‘social mastery’ watched the social circle DVD’s and had a 30 minute phone call with you.
All of this has made a big difference.
I had my first ‘back to back’ two weeks ago where I slept with two different girls for the first time. One of them was 25, which is really the age category I find myself attracted to (I’m 32).
Thanks,
-George
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I tried several aspects of social circle game just for one night at a dance club to see what happened.
After about 2 hours I realized that I could have slept with at least 5 or 6 girls just that night. It was ridiculous. And then I ran into a gorgeous 5’10” eastern bloc model with strawberry blonde hair and amazing bone structure named Natalia.
I used various techniques from your system. The next thing I knew she was dragging me outside to hail a cab back to her loft. The sex was incredible, sex usually is but what made this time so perfect, so gratifying was I wasn’t at the mercy of who was interested in me.
-Cole
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After getting your online book I had a girl take me home that weekend and now two weeks later another. While I’m slowly learning all you teach I think your book gave me the confidence to push through my social barriers that had built up via being more physical sooner, more playful and showing more direct interest. 🙂
Thanks keep up the amazing work and fresh perspective on the game.
-Ivan
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Hey Magic,
Life keeps getting more awesome! I wanted to let you know about the last time I went out.
I have several social circles that I know there along with seeing random friends there all the time. When I went last week I met one of Julies friends, Liz (very cute)who was very interested in me.
I was also talking to a girl (also very cute) from another group of friends and I had a feeling she was interested in me as well. Toward the end of the night I had both girls who were leaving with their friends trying to get me to go with them.
I basically had to decide which girl I wanted to take home that night. That was one of the best problems I have ever had! Liz, the girl I choose is very Bi and I think that could lead to more good things!
And I left things well with the other girl so that is still an option later. That night there was a lot of girls making out with girls and having three way kisses with me and 2 girls. It was a good night!
Talk to ya later
-Danny
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Hi Magic,
Everything you teach about dating and seduction fucking works.I met this girl at a mall . We decided to hangout the next day. She texted me the next day to confirm if we were still on for the date. This has never happened to me before.
She was nervous and told me that she never goes out with random guys on a date. I told her that I was nervous as well and then took her hand and put it on my chest to feel my heartbeat (I got this from your video Magic).
She was so turned on that she started kissing me and man it was awesome. She gave me the best kisses I ever got. She was licking my neck, ears and was kissing me wildly. She even caught my manhood and she could not stop herself.
I took her to my place right after this. I told her to masturbate in the car on the way to my place (This was the first time that I ever used it,and it fucking works like magic) She totally went with it. Use your imagination after this !!!!!
Thanks again MAGIC!!!!
RESPECT BRO…….
James!!!!
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Before I heard about you, I had literally spent years trying to make myself an attractive guy and had made very little progress.
I was focusing on all the wrong things. I was wasting my time in bars all over the city, because at that time, it felt like a job.
After I was introduced to your method , I just felt better about talking to women. I felt like there might be some progress that was happening or was about to happen.
Shortly after that, I met a woman. With the ideas you taught running through my head, I was able to be relaxed and fun enough that we ended up sleeping together right away.
Only a few weeks after she and I met, we admitted to one another that we were in love with each other.
I say “admitted” because we’d begun the relationship with the understanding that we would not get attached. She was married and I was more interested in being single.
That was over a year and a half ago. She and I are still together. She’s separated from her husband, whom I’ve met (he’s a pretty cool guy). Her mother knows about me and supports my girlfriend’s decisions. I’ll be meeting her very soon.
I hope I’ve made it clear that none of this would have happened without you. You taught me how to show my best self to the world.
You taught me how to recognize the opportunities that come my way. Most importantly, you taught me to believe that I deserve all of this.
Your work helped me develop a sense of self-worth that I didn’t even know I was missing. Thank you for that.
-Donovan
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Social Circle Dating is not a very good title for this product. Honestly, it’s a shit title. It should be called Life According to Magic.
When the video begins, Magic gives a brief overview of the topics he’s going to cover and it all sounds like exactly what you would expect: making friends, dating and sleeping with women in your social circle, dating and befriending co-workers, etc.
All of these things are explored in such depth and detail as to put Dale Carnegie to shame.
It soon becomes clear that Magic hasn’t produced a video about building and managing a social circle; he has put to record what, to my knowledge, is the most comprehensive overview of his knowledge, attitudes and perspectives.
By the end of the video, he’s no longer talking about making friends and getting laid; he’s telling you what it takes to be happy.
If you buy any one product from Magic, this should be it.
-Aaron
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Recently Met An ActressI want to thank you. You’re DVDs changed my life, and it is still on going.
I live in Korea, and it still works here.
I’ve been practicing with your stuff, I had succeeded with the 10s. Not even 9s, not 9.5s but 10s. Friends are amused of what I’ve done and doing.
Recently I met this ’10’ girl, who is an actress. Of course she is beautiful, and I wanted to know her better as I met her again and again so we’ve been dating for about a month.
We ended up making out, and I didn’t go any further than that. After that I walked her home, and said goodbye. I was happy that we are going to be in a relationship.
We made a short phone call(She called me to ask if I was back home well.) than slept.
Will update you soon!
-Kim
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