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Anytime you’re starting something new—whether it’s learning a new language, stepping into a leadership role, or even figuring out how to socialize or meet women—it can be incredibly frustrating.
You might find yourself overwhelmed by the many levels and steps involved, thinking, “How am I going to master all this? It feels impossible. I don’t have the time or freedom to focus on this!”
Perhaps you’ve been at it for a while, trying different approaches, and nothing seems to work. You might feel like you could fight a tiger with your bare hands, but somehow, mastering this new skill eludes you.
You begin to wonder if something is rigged against you, if you’re not smart enough, or if people have been lying to you. It’s easy to get frustrated, but what happens when that frustration sets in?
Our brains are wired to protect us from pain, so when things become difficult, our minds start crafting excuses.
Suddenly, you’re convincing yourself, “Maybe this isn’t right for me. I’ll revisit it later. Let’s just take some time off and prepare more.” Even if you see an opportunity—like noticing a woman who seems interested in talking to you—your brain might tell you, “We’ve failed before, so why bother? Let’s just enjoy the night without the risk of rejection.”
This mindset sets you up for failure before you even start. So, how do you break free from this cycle? When faced with frustration and difficulty, it’s crucial not to give up.
You need a strategy to overcome these challenges and achieve your goals, whatever they may be. Whether it’s improving your social skills, getting a promotion at work, or starting a business, the key is to keep pushing forward.
Your mindset controls everything. You might excel in many areas of your life, but if there’s one area where you’re struggling, it can overshadow all your successes.
Maybe you’re a CEO, a US Marine, or a CIA agent—someone who’s achieved great things—but because you struggle with meeting women, you start to feel like a failure.
During these frustrating times, your mind will generate excuses: “I’m too tired today. I’ll start tomorrow. I just need a haircut first. I don’t have the right clothes.” These excuses are your mind’s way of avoiding discomfort, but they also prevent you from achieving your goals.
You have to take control of your mindset. Remind yourself why you’re doing this. It’s not just about meeting women, getting a promotion, or starting a business. It’s about upgrading your life, pushing yourself to the next level, and achieving everything you set out to do. Tell yourself, “This is important to me, and I’m going to go after it and achieve it.”
When doubts creep in—*“But I’m an Indian guy with a thick accent and brown skin; no woman will be interested in me”—*challenge them.
Find evidence that shatters those limiting beliefs. For instance, if you believe your skin color is a barrier, but you see a man with darker skin dating a gorgeous woman, it proves that your excuses don’t hold water.
The key is to find motivation that drives you. Imagine how amazing it will be when you can confidently approach anyone, command a room, and achieve your goals.
Listen to uplifting music, get into a positive state of mind, and remind yourself of your ultimate goal: to go out, practice, and succeed.
Success requires both long-term and short-term strategies. Start with the big picture—what do you want to achieve in the long run? Maybe you want to become a CEO, be the guy who effortlessly attracts women, or become a leader among men.
Once you have your long-term goal, break it down into short-term objectives. If your goal is to be charming with women, think about the smaller steps: What will you say when you see her on the street? How will you approach her and her friends at a bar? How will you generate attraction and create a strong connection?
These smaller blueprints provide the tools and confidence you need to move forward. The same applies to other goals: If you need a promotion, know exactly why you deserve it and how to communicate that to your boss. Having a detailed plan for these smaller tasks makes the larger goal more achievable.
No strategy works perfectly straight out of the box. You have to be willing to improvise and customize it to fit your unique circumstances.
This is exactly what happens in every successful workshop—strategies are tailored to the individual, ensuring they align with their personality and strengths.
For example, when I moved from India to the US, I had to adapt my approach to dating. In India, women might go on a date, kiss you, but still say, “We’re just friends.” I assumed the same would happen in the US, but here, when a woman says she just wants to be friends, continuing to pursue her is seen as inappropriate. I had to adapt my strategy, or I wouldn’t have gotten anywhere.
No matter what you’re trying to achieve, you must learn to improvise. If you can’t adapt, you’ll struggle for a long time and might never reach your destination. Improvisation is the key to overcoming obstacles and staying on track.
The final piece of the puzzle is commitment and discipline. Even when you’re tired, exhausted, or scared, you have to push yourself to take action. It’s easy to listen to that voice that says, “Let’s skip it today; we’ll do it tomorrow.” But giving in to that voice leads to frustration and self-loathing.
After three days of making excuses, you start to feel like a loser, and those negative emotions carry over into your next attempt. You begin to lack confidence and feel weak.
That’s why discipline is so crucial—by consistently taking action, you build a habit that becomes second nature. Over time, what once seemed like a challenge becomes part of your everyday life, and that’s when mastery begins.
To improve any area of your life, you need discipline and commitment. Stick to your goals relentlessly, and you will achieve anything you set your mind to.
By following these four steps—getting in the right mindset, developing a strategy, improvising, and staying committed—you will conquer frustration and reach your goals. Remember, success is within your grasp; all you need to do is take it.
Until Next Time!
Magic Leone
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Magic!
Thank you so much for sharing your videos.
I actually ended up getting an One Night Stand right afterwatching your DVDs.
Seemed to work really well haha.
My handle is XXX if you want to read the report. Please let me know what you schedule is going to be like afteryou return from visiting your family.
I’d really like to schedule one of your training sessions.
Thanks again,
– Chris
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Thanks Magic! I made love with a girl this weekend who was my friend from long time.
With my new look and aggressiveness i think i was able to come out the safe guy mode.
You changed my life!
Sai Manohar
Hi Magic, I can’t begin to tell you how much I’ve learned from you so far.
I’ve read ‘social mastery’ watched the social circle DVD’s and had a 30 minute phone call with you.
All of this has made a big difference.
I had my first ‘back to back’ two weeks ago where I slept with two different girls for the first time. One of them was 25, which is really the age category I find myself attracted to (I’m 32).
Thanks,
-George
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I tried several aspects of social circle game just for one night at a dance club to see what happened.
After about 2 hours I realized that I could have slept with at least 5 or 6 girls just that night. It was ridiculous. And then I ran into a gorgeous 5’10” eastern bloc model with strawberry blonde hair and amazing bone structure named Natalia.
I used various techniques from your system. The next thing I knew she was dragging me outside to hail a cab back to her loft. The sex was incredible, sex usually is but what made this time so perfect, so gratifying was I wasn’t at the mercy of who was interested in me.
-Cole
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After getting your online book I had a girl take me home that weekend and now two weeks later another. While I’m slowly learning all you teach I think your book gave me the confidence to push through my social barriers that had built up via being more physical sooner, more playful and showing more direct interest. 🙂
Thanks keep up the amazing work and fresh perspective on the game.
-Ivan
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Hey Magic,
Life keeps getting more awesome! I wanted to let you know about the last time I went out.
I have several social circles that I know there along with seeing random friends there all the time. When I went last week I met one of Julies friends, Liz (very cute)who was very interested in me.
I was also talking to a girl (also very cute) from another group of friends and I had a feeling she was interested in me as well. Toward the end of the night I had both girls who were leaving with their friends trying to get me to go with them.
I basically had to decide which girl I wanted to take home that night. That was one of the best problems I have ever had! Liz, the girl I choose is very Bi and I think that could lead to more good things!
And I left things well with the other girl so that is still an option later. That night there was a lot of girls making out with girls and having three way kisses with me and 2 girls. It was a good night!
Talk to ya later
-Danny
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Hi Magic,
Everything you teach about dating and seduction fucking works.I met this girl at a mall . We decided to hangout the next day. She texted me the next day to confirm if we were still on for the date. This has never happened to me before.
She was nervous and told me that she never goes out with random guys on a date. I told her that I was nervous as well and then took her hand and put it on my chest to feel my heartbeat (I got this from your video Magic).
She was so turned on that she started kissing me and man it was awesome. She gave me the best kisses I ever got. She was licking my neck, ears and was kissing me wildly. She even caught my manhood and she could not stop herself.
I took her to my place right after this. I told her to masturbate in the car on the way to my place (This was the first time that I ever used it,and it fucking works like magic) She totally went with it. Use your imagination after this !!!!!
Thanks again MAGIC!!!!
RESPECT BRO…….
James!!!!
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Before I heard about you, I had literally spent years trying to make myself an attractive guy and had made very little progress.
I was focusing on all the wrong things. I was wasting my time in bars all over the city, because at that time, it felt like a job.
After I was introduced to your method , I just felt better about talking to women. I felt like there might be some progress that was happening or was about to happen.
Shortly after that, I met a woman. With the ideas you taught running through my head, I was able to be relaxed and fun enough that we ended up sleeping together right away.
Only a few weeks after she and I met, we admitted to one another that we were in love with each other.
I say “admitted” because we’d begun the relationship with the understanding that we would not get attached. She was married and I was more interested in being single.
That was over a year and a half ago. She and I are still together. She’s separated from her husband, whom I’ve met (he’s a pretty cool guy). Her mother knows about me and supports my girlfriend’s decisions. I’ll be meeting her very soon.
I hope I’ve made it clear that none of this would have happened without you. You taught me how to show my best self to the world.
You taught me how to recognize the opportunities that come my way. Most importantly, you taught me to believe that I deserve all of this.
Your work helped me develop a sense of self-worth that I didn’t even know I was missing. Thank you for that.
-Donovan
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Social Circle Dating is not a very good title for this product. Honestly, it’s a shit title. It should be called Life According to Magic.
When the video begins, Magic gives a brief overview of the topics he’s going to cover and it all sounds like exactly what you would expect: making friends, dating and sleeping with women in your social circle, dating and befriending co-workers, etc.
All of these things are explored in such depth and detail as to put Dale Carnegie to shame.
It soon becomes clear that Magic hasn’t produced a video about building and managing a social circle; he has put to record what, to my knowledge, is the most comprehensive overview of his knowledge, attitudes and perspectives.
By the end of the video, he’s no longer talking about making friends and getting laid; he’s telling you what it takes to be happy.
If you buy any one product from Magic, this should be it.
-Aaron
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Recently Met An ActressI want to thank you. You’re DVDs changed my life, and it is still on going.
I live in Korea, and it still works here.
I’ve been practicing with your stuff, I had succeeded with the 10s. Not even 9s, not 9.5s but 10s. Friends are amused of what I’ve done and doing.
Recently I met this ’10’ girl, who is an actress. Of course she is beautiful, and I wanted to know her better as I met her again and again so we’ve been dating for about a month.
We ended up making out, and I didn’t go any further than that. After that I walked her home, and said goodbye. I was happy that we are going to be in a relationship.
We made a short phone call(She called me to ask if I was back home well.) than slept.
Will update you soon!
-Kim
