Words cannot express the importance of being fashionable and well-groomed.  Remember:  Women will form opinions about you even before you say hello.  If you appear slovenly you are only going to hurt yourself. Long dirty nails, bad breath, unkempt hair or smelly clothes are the perfect recipe for disaster in the dating world.

When it comes to being fashionable, you do not have to buy the most expensive clothes. All I am suggesting is to wear clothes that are trendy and fit well on you. Wearing shirts three times too large or half your size only reflects your insecurities or makes you appear as though you do not care how you look.

Women appreciate a good-looking man. The kind of guy she dates also reflects upon her. If you are a cool guy who dresses sexy you would contribute to her social image and she would be proud to introduce you as her boyfriend. It was previously thought that the only guys paying attention to their looks are those who live in urban centers such as New York or Paris. In this day and age, it is acceptable – and even expected – that men be up on the current trends, “manscape”, pay attention to fashion and dress accordingly.  Being fashionable and well-groomed is one of the best ways to beat out your opponents. Don’t miss this opportunity!

Workout at least 2-3 times a week. This is very important. You do not have to be ripped or have loaded muscles like “Arnold”, but losing the belly fat and having a toned body is very attractive. It is also a health indicator. Research shows that women are naturally attracted to well-proportioned bodies achieved by working out. Clothes also fit and look better on a proportioned body.

I would recommend going on www.hotornot.com and rate men in your community, which is what I did when I moved to the US. My idea of what was fashionable obviously didn’t work in US at the time. Rating guys as “hot or not” allows you to start to pick up trends and see what it is about men that gets them higher ratings. It will automatically improve your understanding of what women find attractive. I also post pictures of my looks on www.hotornot.com to see how my new looks are doing. Here are couple examples:

If you need a complete, improved and original look from head to toe in accordance with your own personality and lifestyle then check out our session on fashion Consulting for Men

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