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If you’ve been striving for success for a long time without seeing any significant results, don’t despair.
It’s not uncommon to feel disappointed and even disillusioned after investing time, money, and effort into various trainings and courses, only to find that you’re still not where you want to be.
But the key to achieving success is persistence and progress.
Don’t allow yourself to become stationary in your pursuits.
In fact, being stationary can be equated to moving backwards, as life, people, and events are always moving forward.
Hence, the only true way to move forward is by making progress, no matter how small.
Even if your current strategies aren’t working and it feels painful, it’s crucial to keep going.
Remember, the path to success is often fraught with challenges, but it’s your determination to overcome them that will ultimately lead you to your desired destination.
The idea of stopping and returning to your goals at a later date might seem appealing, but the truth is, you might never come back to it.
This is because our brains naturally avoid experiences that have previously caused us pain.
However, if you truly want to succeed, you need to power through this pain and keep pushing forward.
Consider two important points: First, giving up could mean missing out on a breakthrough that was just around the corner.
Second, life is a one-time opportunity.
The regret of giving up too soon, of not trying, is far more painful than the temporary sting of rejection or failure.
Therefore, don’t allow the fear of failure to stop you.
Strive to push through the pain, put in your best effort, and keep going until you achieve your goals.
After all, the ultimate pain you want to avoid is the pain of regret.
The unyielding persistence in pursuit of your goals can indeed make you unstoppable.
The first crucial step on the road to success is to reignite your motivation, to stoke the fire of your desire to achieve.
Initially, when you embarked on your journey, you were likely driven by passion, enthusiasm, and a thirst for success.
But as you faced setbacks and your efforts didn’t yield the expected results, it’s possible that your initial excitement faded. The once pleasurable pursuit might have turned into a source of pain, causing you to lose your motivation.
The key is to acknowledge this shift and work to reignite the spark of motivation, despite the challenges you face.
To get back on track, you need to find a way to reignite that motivation, that desire, and that hunger for success.
There are two strategies I recommend to rekindle this fire.
The first strategy draws from my personal experience which I discuss in detail in the tea system.
Here’s a brief version: when my grandfather passed away, he sadly realized that he had lived his life for others and died unhappy.
This was starkly contrasted by the death of my ex’s grandmother, who despite her life choices being questioned by many, died a content person.
The crux of the matter is this: your life, your choices, the pain and pleasure you experience, and their consequences belong solely to you.
Your emotions and experiences don’t inherently affect others.
Your happiness or sadness might momentarily touch those around you, perhaps triggering expressions of sympathy or comfort, but fundamentally, your life is your own journey.
Even in the event of your passing, the world continues to turn.
This might sound harsh, but it underlines the importance of living your life for yourself, making choices that lead to your own fulfillment and happiness.
It’s essential to understand that the results of your actions are yours alone.
You are the only one responsible for resolving any issues, turning your life around, and achieving your goals because there might not be a second chance.
This understanding should motivate you to persist and not give up. Personally, this philosophy fuels my determination.
I don’t surrender to challenges because I recognize this might be my only chance.
I can choose to play it safe, avoiding humiliation or mockery, or I can choose to pursue whatever I desire.
It’s this latter choice that I encourage you to embrace.
The first method to reignite your motivation is to find a trigger, a personal realization or experience that propels you forward.
The second strategy is to leverage an external trigger.
For example, a few years ago, I took a marketing course from a well-known expert that was poorly executed.
This negative experience triggered me to write a book on marketing in response.
I published the book on Amazon and it has since received over a hundred five-star reviews.
The subpar course acted as a catalyst, sparking my motivation and leading me to produce something valuable and well-received.
For a period, I stepped back from coaching in the dating field.
I spent several years focusing on personal growth and began to believe that I had helped enough people and that no one needed my guidance anymore.
This illusion is common when you’ve been doing something for a prolonged period.
However, a client of mine invited me to attend a seminar led by a renowned guru.
This guru’s approach was so detrimental that it reignited my motivation.
Observing the harm being done sparked a realization within me: I am needed.
People still require my assistance.
This experience served as a powerful reminder of the impact I could have.
Occasionally, stumbling upon an external trigger can rekindle your drive, reminding you that giving up isn’t an option.
The third method is to reintroduce pleasure into the process.
If you find yourself consistently feeling dejected, fixating only on what isn’t working, it’s time to infuse some joy back into the equation.
Perhaps you’ve invested a significant amount of effort, money, and time without seeing the desired results.
Remember, when you started, there was a sense of excitement and anticipation – the thrill of potential success.
Whether it was dating a beautiful woman, having multiple romantic partners, or another goal that kept you motivated initially, it’s crucial to reconnect with that source of pleasure and enthusiasm.
One practical method to reignite your enthusiasm is through visualization.
For instance, you could print a photo of a woman whom you find attractive, someone you would like to be with.
Adhere this image to your wall, or set it as a background on your phone.
Take some time every morning, evening, and even during your lunch break to gaze at the photo.
While looking at it, allow yourself to daydream for a few minutes.
Visualize what life would be like with her – coming home to her, kissing her, dining out together, holding hands, and building a life together.
Fully immerse yourself in these visions for a few minutes every day.
By doing so, you can start to restore the pleasure and excitement that initially fueled your journey.
Rekindling your motivation will come from the realization that all your efforts are directed towards achieving something extraordinary.
This realization can revive the pleasure you once felt, stimulating your motivation once more.
Implementing one of these three strategies can resurrect your desire, reignite your determination, and put you back on the path towards your objectives.
Following this, the second step is to train your brain for success.
If your mind can’t envision success, you won’t be inclined to strive for it, and consequently, will never achieve it.
This is especially relevant if you’ve been stuck in a rut for a while.
After putting in substantial effort, going on numerous dates, spending significant amounts of money, attending various seminars, and yet not achieving your desired result, your brain may start to convince you that your goals are unattainable.
It might come up with justifications like you’re too old, overweight, underweight, or don’t have the right complexion, among others.
These excuses may seem so plausible that you start to believe that success is simply not possible for you, given the number of times you’ve tried and failed.
When your motivation wanes, one effective strategy to rekindle it is by seeking out examples of others who have traversed a similar path and achieved the results you desire.
Observing someone else, particularly someone who may have faced even greater challenges or started from a less advantageous position, can reignite your drive.
The reasoning is simple: if they can do it, why can’t you?
This realization will spark a renewed desire within you. Your brain will understand that if they can achieve it, it is indeed possible for you as well.
Once your brain accepts the possibility of success, it will drive you to put in the effort towards your goal, ultimately leading to tangible results.
The third step towards success is to identify and alter the patterns, habits, and behaviors that are hindering your progress, replacing them with those that promote success.
For instance, when working with clients, one of my initial directives is to abstain from watching videos from other gurus or any other dating material for at least 60 days prior to joining my program.
This is because consuming such content often leads to the adoption of unproductive habits, which further obstruct their path to success.
Often, in my workshops, a significant amount of time is spent rectifying the unhelpful habits clients have picked up, instead of focusing solely on teaching strategies that will work for them.
This same scenario may apply to you.
You might have engaged with numerous programs and coaches — while these methods might work for others, they’re clearly not yielding results for you.
However, you’ve internalized many of these strategies, some even becoming second nature, and they’re now detrimental to your progress.
This frustration may also be why you’re distancing yourself from these approaches.
Therefore, it’s crucial to identify and address what habits you’ve adopted that are actually hindering your success.
Begin by identifying patterns in your interactions.
For example, if women seem uninterested even before you approach them, or if you face frequent rejection upon approaching, it indicates an issue with your first impression.
If you lose women within the first five minutes of interaction, it suggests a problem with the initial stages of your conversation.
If you’re losing them later on, or if they frequently flake on dates, you must identify what’s going wrong at these stages.
Perhaps you’re too apprehensive to move things forward, to flirt, to establish an emotional connection, or to make a physical move.
It’s crucial to recognize these recurring patterns and replace them with strategies that work for you.
However, another common issue I’ve noticed in this field is as follows.
A prevalent issue I’ve noticed is that many so-called coaches in this industry are actually just players.
To illustrate, let’s consider a hypothetical situation: You approach a player for advice on how to pass the ball past a tall opponent.
The player, drawing from their own experience, might advise you to simply throw the ball over the opponent’s head.
However, this advice fails to consider your specific situation and abilities — for example, you might not have the height to execute such a move successfully.
A real coach, on the other hand, would assess your unique circumstances and devise an appropriate strategy, such as suggesting you pass the ball between the opponent’s legs instead.
This demonstrates the crucial difference between a player and a coach.
It seems many individuals in this industry are essentially players.
Their approach typically involves sharing their own growth strategy and suggesting you replicate it for similar results.
However, this one-size-fits-all tactic may not be effective for everyone.
If you’ve been employing these strategies without success, it’s time for a change.
The key is to identify what isn’t working, discard those methods, and then pinpoint what does work for you.
This is precisely the approach I take in my workshops.
There’s no secret formula; it’s a matter of analyzing your interactions, determining what’s effective and what isn’t, and adjusting accordingly.
By doing this, you’ll start to see results. So, to sum up.
I fully comprehend the challenges you’re facing and the frustration you feel after trying multiple strategies without success.
I empathize with your situation, but I urge you not to give up.
Keep pushing forward, keep learning, and keep trying.
Perseverance is key, and I assure you, it’s only a matter of time before you break through to the other side.
And the sense of accomplishment and the results waiting for you there are far more rewarding and gratifying.
We all have a right to attain everything we desire in life.
After all, we only get one shot at living, and it’s crucial to seek happiness and fulfillment, rather than settling for less.
Think about it – you could make everyone around you happy, own a grand house, provide for your parents, and still feel unhappy at the end of the day.
That’s not the life you want or deserve, and it’s certainly not the life you should lead.
The only obstacle between you and your desires is giving up, halting your progress, and ceasing to work towards your goals.
Thus, regardless of how dire your situation appears or how long you’ve been trying, never stop.
Persist in your efforts, and you’ll be forever grateful you did.
I hope this advice resonates with you. Until our next conversation.
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Until Next Time!
Magic Leone
Magic!
Thank you so much for sharing your videos.
I actually ended up getting an One Night Stand right afterwatching your DVDs.
Seemed to work really well haha.
My handle is XXX if you want to read the report. Please let me know what you schedule is going to be like afteryou return from visiting your family.
I’d really like to schedule one of your training sessions.
Thanks again,
– Chris
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Thanks Magic! I made love with a girl this weekend who was my friend from long time.
With my new look and aggressiveness i think i was able to come out the safe guy mode.
You changed my life!
Sai Manohar
Hi Magic, I can’t begin to tell you how much I’ve learned from you so far.
I’ve read ‘social mastery’ watched the social circle DVD’s and had a 30 minute phone call with you.
All of this has made a big difference.
I had my first ‘back to back’ two weeks ago where I slept with two different girls for the first time. One of them was 25, which is really the age category I find myself attracted to (I’m 32).
Thanks,
-George
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I tried several aspects of social circle game just for one night at a dance club to see what happened.
After about 2 hours I realized that I could have slept with at least 5 or 6 girls just that night. It was ridiculous. And then I ran into a gorgeous 5’10” eastern bloc model with strawberry blonde hair and amazing bone structure named Natalia.
I used various techniques from your system. The next thing I knew she was dragging me outside to hail a cab back to her loft. The sex was incredible, sex usually is but what made this time so perfect, so gratifying was I wasn’t at the mercy of who was interested in me.
-Cole
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After getting your online book I had a girl take me home that weekend and now two weeks later another. While I’m slowly learning all you teach I think your book gave me the confidence to push through my social barriers that had built up via being more physical sooner, more playful and showing more direct interest. 🙂
Thanks keep up the amazing work and fresh perspective on the game.
-Ivan
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Hey Magic,
Life keeps getting more awesome! I wanted to let you know about the last time I went out.
I have several social circles that I know there along with seeing random friends there all the time. When I went last week I met one of Julies friends, Liz (very cute)who was very interested in me.
I was also talking to a girl (also very cute) from another group of friends and I had a feeling she was interested in me as well. Toward the end of the night I had both girls who were leaving with their friends trying to get me to go with them.
I basically had to decide which girl I wanted to take home that night. That was one of the best problems I have ever had! Liz, the girl I choose is very Bi and I think that could lead to more good things!
And I left things well with the other girl so that is still an option later. That night there was a lot of girls making out with girls and having three way kisses with me and 2 girls. It was a good night!
Talk to ya later
-Danny
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Hi Magic,
Everything you teach about dating and seduction fucking works.I met this girl at a mall . We decided to hangout the next day. She texted me the next day to confirm if we were still on for the date. This has never happened to me before.
She was nervous and told me that she never goes out with random guys on a date. I told her that I was nervous as well and then took her hand and put it on my chest to feel my heartbeat (I got this from your video Magic).
She was so turned on that she started kissing me and man it was awesome. She gave me the best kisses I ever got. She was licking my neck, ears and was kissing me wildly. She even caught my manhood and she could not stop herself.
I took her to my place right after this. I told her to masturbate in the car on the way to my place (This was the first time that I ever used it,and it fucking works like magic) She totally went with it. Use your imagination after this !!!!!
Thanks again MAGIC!!!!
RESPECT BRO…….
James!!!!
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Before I heard about you, I had literally spent years trying to make myself an attractive guy and had made very little progress.
I was focusing on all the wrong things. I was wasting my time in bars all over the city, because at that time, it felt like a job.
After I was introduced to your method , I just felt better about talking to women. I felt like there might be some progress that was happening or was about to happen.
Shortly after that, I met a woman. With the ideas you taught running through my head, I was able to be relaxed and fun enough that we ended up sleeping together right away.
Only a few weeks after she and I met, we admitted to one another that we were in love with each other.
I say “admitted” because we’d begun the relationship with the understanding that we would not get attached. She was married and I was more interested in being single.
That was over a year and a half ago. She and I are still together. She’s separated from her husband, whom I’ve met (he’s a pretty cool guy). Her mother knows about me and supports my girlfriend’s decisions. I’ll be meeting her very soon.
I hope I’ve made it clear that none of this would have happened without you. You taught me how to show my best self to the world.
You taught me how to recognize the opportunities that come my way. Most importantly, you taught me to believe that I deserve all of this.
Your work helped me develop a sense of self-worth that I didn’t even know I was missing. Thank you for that.
-Donovan
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Social Circle Dating is not a very good title for this product. Honestly, it’s a shit title. It should be called Life According to Magic.
When the video begins, Magic gives a brief overview of the topics he’s going to cover and it all sounds like exactly what you would expect: making friends, dating and sleeping with women in your social circle, dating and befriending co-workers, etc.
All of these things are explored in such depth and detail as to put Dale Carnegie to shame.
It soon becomes clear that Magic hasn’t produced a video about building and managing a social circle; he has put to record what, to my knowledge, is the most comprehensive overview of his knowledge, attitudes and perspectives.
By the end of the video, he’s no longer talking about making friends and getting laid; he’s telling you what it takes to be happy.
If you buy any one product from Magic, this should be it.
-Aaron
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Recently Met An ActressI want to thank you. You’re DVDs changed my life, and it is still on going.
I live in Korea, and it still works here.
I’ve been practicing with your stuff, I had succeeded with the 10s. Not even 9s, not 9.5s but 10s. Friends are amused of what I’ve done and doing.
Recently I met this ’10’ girl, who is an actress. Of course she is beautiful, and I wanted to know her better as I met her again and again so we’ve been dating for about a month.
We ended up making out, and I didn’t go any further than that. After that I walked her home, and said goodbye. I was happy that we are going to be in a relationship.
We made a short phone call(She called me to ask if I was back home well.) than slept.
Will update you soon!
-Kim
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