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I’m gonna tell you today about one dating mistake that is so common, almost every guy makes it, and as a result, they lose their chances with the woman.
This is so common that I thought I need to make a video about this so, in case you’re making the same mistake, you can stop making this mistake.
But before I get to that, I wanna tell you one more thing. When it comes to making progress in dating, there are two things you need to do: identify the mistakes you’re making and correct them, and learn what you need to do differently and start doing that.
If you think about it, this is exactly what all my coaching programs are. This is what the TEASE system is.
When somebody comes to a workshop, what do I do?
I look at the things they’re doing wrong. I tell them, “Don’t make these mistakes.” I correct their mistakes, and I tell them how to do those things differently.
The reason I’m saying this is that I see a lot of guys start doing something, it doesn’t work, then they go to something else, then they go to something else. They’re making horizontal progress as opposed to vertical progress.
What’s happening is they’re learning too many systems, they have too much knowledge. Yes, they know a lot of things, but nothing is working for them, nothing is bringing results.
In order to get results, it’s really important that you find out the mistakes you’re making and correct them.
That’s how you’re going to keep growing vertically, which is how you’re going to get success.
So it’s really important that you identify the mistakes you’re making so when you go out and when you’re out with women, you’re not frustrated.
The most common mistake I see men make all the time is slowing down on flirting.
When flirting takes off, when you’re flirting with a woman and she’s responding back, if you slow down, you’re going to kill the attraction. Slowing down is the number one attraction killer. Write this down and memorize this.
This is the most important thing you need to memorize. When things take off and things start to move on, you never slow down; you add more fuel to the fire and you go as fast as you can.
In general, meeting to intimacy should not take more than 30 minutes. If it’s taking you more than 30 minutes, you’re doing something wrong.
This doesn’t mean you have to take the woman home in 30 minutes.
It means the attraction should be so strong that she’s ready to go home with you in 30 minutes. Then you can decide that you’re not going to go tonight; you’re going to slow things down. You’re going to text her tomorrow or ask her out on a date.
Now she will respond to your text; she will come out on a date because her attraction for you is that strong. Anytime it’s taking you more than 30 minutes to reach that level, you’re doing something wrong.
Just last week, I was training a guy here in Mexico. He came to Mexico to learn from me. I’m traveling here, and as he was flirting with the girl, things were on.
The woman was flirting back, she was holding his hand, and they even kissed. After the kiss, she was still holding his hand, so you know the attraction was really strong.
Then he started talking about her family, and from that point on, you could see the attraction level started to diminish. The woman said, “You know what? It’s getting late, I have to wake up early, so I need to leave now. Let’s connect tomorrow.” That connection never happened.
I asked him later why he did that, and he said, “You know, I did that because everybody says you shouldn’t move too fast. If you move too fast, women might freak out and walk away.”
I said, “No, no, no. This is so wrong.
Women want things to go slow when they’re not attracted to you because they haven’t processed their feelings for you. They’re still trying to find reasons why they should flirt with you, why they should be romantic with you, why they should kiss you.”
But if she’s already into you, you can’t slow things down.
When you slow things down, the attraction is there, the woman’s flirting with you, and now she’s confused.
Now she’s thinking, “Maybe the guy’s not into me. Maybe he’s just a nice guy.” This happened to me many years back.
There was a girl I used to flirt with all the time, and then things just didn’t go anywhere. She disappeared.
After a while, she came back and talked to me.
I cannot remember what she said, but I remember telling her, “Oh, you’re great. You’re the kind of woman I want.” And she said, “Oh, that’s funny because I used to flirt with you and you never responded back, so I used to think you’re just a nice guy.”
Bing, bing, bing, bing, bing! That’s what it is.
When you don’t flirt, when you don’t keep escalating with your flirting, the woman gets confused and then she backs off because she doesn’t want to get hurt, she doesn’t want to get rejected.
I was in Miami doing a workshop. Both nights, we had women who wanted to go home with us. Mind you, both of these nights, I was making zero efforts.
The very first night, within the first 20 minutes, the girl kissed me on my cheek, and she really wanted to be with me. Then she went to the restroom with her friend.
Here’s something you need to know: girls only go to the restroom for three reasons. Either they wanna talk to each other and say, “Should we talk to these guys or should we bail out?” or “Should we go home with them or not?” or “They want to discuss who’s going to take what guy home.” Those are the only three things they go to the restroom for.
So she already kissed me, went to the restroom in 20 minutes, and I knew what was happening.
Her friend also kept telling me to flirt more with her because she could see that I was on the colder side. Her friend was flirting with me. This was less than 20 minutes.
The second day, the same thing happened. We were there, flirting with two girls. Within 10 to 15 minutes, these girls were out for dinner. They invited us to join them for dinner, and we said no.
They came back, started flirting with us. This one girl I was talking to, I said, “Do you still want to have kids?” Her friend was listening, and she said, “No, her factory is closed.” The girl I was talking to responded back, “No, no, no. I think my factory might still be open.”
That’s how powerful it is. Within 20 minutes, she’s telling me she’s willing to have kids with me. We’re already flirting hardcore at this point.
The reason I’m telling you this is that meeting to attraction or meeting to intimacy should not take more than 30 minutes.
If it’s taking you more than 30 minutes, you’re doing something wrong. You’re killing the attraction.
These two days, when I was talking to these girls, I told my client, “My game on the scale of one to ten was no more than two.” I was so tired from my traveling. Plus, I don’t do any demos or interactions in the workshop because I want my client to be talking, not me.
Here we both were talking, but I was really like almost at zero game. But women were still attracted to me.
Within 20 minutes, they’re kissing me, initiating the text messages to come and meet them in the middle of the night. You know why they want us to meet them in the middle of the night, especially after the woman has kissed me, right?
Science backs this up. Studies show that the human brain makes decisions about attraction within minutes. If it takes more than 30 minutes to build strong attraction, you’re doing something wrong. You want her to be so into you within 30 minutes that she’s ready for intimacy. If you need more time, reassess your approach.
So you’re talking about her family like, “This is so great. I can tell you like your family so much, and you’re still away from them because you’re trying to make something for yourself. That’s the kind of girl I want. You are my girl.”
Keep that fire burning. Keep adding more and more fuel to that fire so the fire just rages until it’s uncontrollable. There’s nothing left to do in less than 30 minutes, and it’s so effortless for me because now I know the rules.
That’s what you need to master.
You need to make it so easy for you that when you go out, you’re not worrying like, “Oh shit, what am I gonna do? What am I gonna talk to her about?”
You’re like, “I’m here. She’s just a girl. I know once I start talking to her, she has no choice but to be with me.” That confidence is what you want to achieve. That confidence comes when you work on the strategy of finding your mistakes and correcting them, and when you’re already talking to women and flirting, and things are moving forward, you don’t slow down.
The reason I’m telling you this is so that when you go out, you’re not afraid to talk to women, and when you’re flirting with women and they respond back, you don’t back off.
When women flirt back, it’s a green light. This means go as fast as you can. You go and have a good time with her. That’s how you create powerful, meaningful relationships.
Until Next Time!
Magic Leone
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Magic!
Thank you so much for sharing your videos.
I actually ended up getting an One Night Stand right afterwatching your DVDs.
Seemed to work really well haha.
My handle is XXX if you want to read the report. Please let me know what you schedule is going to be like afteryou return from visiting your family.
I’d really like to schedule one of your training sessions.
Thanks again,
– Chris
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Thanks Magic! I made love with a girl this weekend who was my friend from long time.
With my new look and aggressiveness i think i was able to come out the safe guy mode.
You changed my life!
Sai Manohar
Hi Magic, I can’t begin to tell you how much I’ve learned from you so far.
I’ve read ‘social mastery’ watched the social circle DVD’s and had a 30 minute phone call with you.
All of this has made a big difference.
I had my first ‘back to back’ two weeks ago where I slept with two different girls for the first time. One of them was 25, which is really the age category I find myself attracted to (I’m 32).
Thanks,
-George
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I tried several aspects of social circle game just for one night at a dance club to see what happened.
After about 2 hours I realized that I could have slept with at least 5 or 6 girls just that night. It was ridiculous. And then I ran into a gorgeous 5’10” eastern bloc model with strawberry blonde hair and amazing bone structure named Natalia.
I used various techniques from your system. The next thing I knew she was dragging me outside to hail a cab back to her loft. The sex was incredible, sex usually is but what made this time so perfect, so gratifying was I wasn’t at the mercy of who was interested in me.
-Cole
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After getting your online book I had a girl take me home that weekend and now two weeks later another. While I’m slowly learning all you teach I think your book gave me the confidence to push through my social barriers that had built up via being more physical sooner, more playful and showing more direct interest. 🙂
Thanks keep up the amazing work and fresh perspective on the game.
-Ivan
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Hey Magic,
Life keeps getting more awesome! I wanted to let you know about the last time I went out.
I have several social circles that I know there along with seeing random friends there all the time. When I went last week I met one of Julies friends, Liz (very cute)who was very interested in me.
I was also talking to a girl (also very cute) from another group of friends and I had a feeling she was interested in me as well. Toward the end of the night I had both girls who were leaving with their friends trying to get me to go with them.
I basically had to decide which girl I wanted to take home that night. That was one of the best problems I have ever had! Liz, the girl I choose is very Bi and I think that could lead to more good things!
And I left things well with the other girl so that is still an option later. That night there was a lot of girls making out with girls and having three way kisses with me and 2 girls. It was a good night!
Talk to ya later
-Danny
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Hi Magic,
Everything you teach about dating and seduction fucking works.I met this girl at a mall . We decided to hangout the next day. She texted me the next day to confirm if we were still on for the date. This has never happened to me before.
She was nervous and told me that she never goes out with random guys on a date. I told her that I was nervous as well and then took her hand and put it on my chest to feel my heartbeat (I got this from your video Magic).
She was so turned on that she started kissing me and man it was awesome. She gave me the best kisses I ever got. She was licking my neck, ears and was kissing me wildly. She even caught my manhood and she could not stop herself.
I took her to my place right after this. I told her to masturbate in the car on the way to my place (This was the first time that I ever used it,and it fucking works like magic) She totally went with it. Use your imagination after this !!!!!
Thanks again MAGIC!!!!
RESPECT BRO…….
James!!!!
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Before I heard about you, I had literally spent years trying to make myself an attractive guy and had made very little progress.
I was focusing on all the wrong things. I was wasting my time in bars all over the city, because at that time, it felt like a job.
After I was introduced to your method , I just felt better about talking to women. I felt like there might be some progress that was happening or was about to happen.
Shortly after that, I met a woman. With the ideas you taught running through my head, I was able to be relaxed and fun enough that we ended up sleeping together right away.
Only a few weeks after she and I met, we admitted to one another that we were in love with each other.
I say “admitted” because we’d begun the relationship with the understanding that we would not get attached. She was married and I was more interested in being single.
That was over a year and a half ago. She and I are still together. She’s separated from her husband, whom I’ve met (he’s a pretty cool guy). Her mother knows about me and supports my girlfriend’s decisions. I’ll be meeting her very soon.
I hope I’ve made it clear that none of this would have happened without you. You taught me how to show my best self to the world.
You taught me how to recognize the opportunities that come my way. Most importantly, you taught me to believe that I deserve all of this.
Your work helped me develop a sense of self-worth that I didn’t even know I was missing. Thank you for that.
-Donovan
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Social Circle Dating is not a very good title for this product. Honestly, it’s a shit title. It should be called Life According to Magic.
When the video begins, Magic gives a brief overview of the topics he’s going to cover and it all sounds like exactly what you would expect: making friends, dating and sleeping with women in your social circle, dating and befriending co-workers, etc.
All of these things are explored in such depth and detail as to put Dale Carnegie to shame.
It soon becomes clear that Magic hasn’t produced a video about building and managing a social circle; he has put to record what, to my knowledge, is the most comprehensive overview of his knowledge, attitudes and perspectives.
By the end of the video, he’s no longer talking about making friends and getting laid; he’s telling you what it takes to be happy.
If you buy any one product from Magic, this should be it.
-Aaron
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Recently Met An ActressI want to thank you. You’re DVDs changed my life, and it is still on going.
I live in Korea, and it still works here.
I’ve been practicing with your stuff, I had succeeded with the 10s. Not even 9s, not 9.5s but 10s. Friends are amused of what I’ve done and doing.
Recently I met this ’10’ girl, who is an actress. Of course she is beautiful, and I wanted to know her better as I met her again and again so we’ve been dating for about a month.
We ended up making out, and I didn’t go any further than that. After that I walked her home, and said goodbye. I was happy that we are going to be in a relationship.
We made a short phone call(She called me to ask if I was back home well.) than slept.
Will update you soon!
-Kim
