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One of the questions I get all the time is: “Magic, I live in Los Angeles, New York, Miami, Chicago, London… Where should I go to meet the right woman for me? And how should I go about it?” In this blog, I’m going to guide you on where to meet the right woman and how to go about connecting with her so you can stop being single and find someone you genuinely want to be with.
Before You Go Out, Know Who You’re Looking For
The first and most important step, even before you go out, is to ask yourself: What kind of woman do you truly want to date? I’m not just talking about someone who’s attractive or fun in the short term; think about your future. What kind of woman do you see by your side 5, 10, 20 years from now? What values does she have? What kind of conversations will you share? What life do you want to build together?
When you know the answer to this, it makes everything easier. You’ll know where to go to find her, and the process will feel more natural.
Don’t Settle Just to End Loneliness
Too many guys, after being single for too long, get tired of the loneliness and start thinking, “I don’t care who she is, just give me a woman!” This is a dangerous mindset. You’re setting yourself up for failure. If you approach random women who aren’t your type, your subconscious knows she isn’t right for you, and that’s going to affect your interactions. You won’t give your best, and it’ll lead to frustrating results.
Plus, if you end up dating someone who isn’t your type, you’ll quickly feel trapped, guilty, and even more miserable. This will drain your energy and make future dating feel even harder. Instead, take the time to ask yourself what kind of woman you truly want.
Meet Women Based on Shared Interests
Once you know the type of woman you want, you’ll also know where to find her. For example, if you’re looking for a woman who’s into fitness, you’ll know not to waste time at bars or clubs. Instead, head to a yoga class, a gym, or even a marathon. The conversations will flow naturally because you’ll share common interests. You can bond over the things you both love, like your favorite yoga routine or workout spots, making the entire process organic.
Use Your Emotions to Fuel Your Success
One of the biggest mistakes men make is letting their emotions control them. You see a woman, and suddenly you feel like telling her how beautiful she is or making a move, even if it’s not the right time. Impulsiveness can ruin everything.
You want to be the guy who controls his emotions—not the other way around. Use your emotions as fuel to achieve your goals. When you control your emotions, you’ll approach women with confidence, patience, and charm, making you more attractive in the process.
Know Where to Find Women Who Match Your Lifestyle
If you’re looking for a woman who’s into fashion, you’re not going to find her at a dive bar. You’ll meet her in places like clothing stores, makeup shops, or fashion events. This allows you to start conversations about fashion naturally, like complimenting her style or sharing your appreciation for people who love to express themselves through their appearance.
By knowing where to find women who match your desired lifestyle, your conversations will be more meaningful, and you’ll instantly connect on a deeper level.
Talk About What Matters to You
When talking to women, don’t try to say what you think they want to hear. Focus on the topics that are important to you and your future. For example, if building a family or a successful business is important to you, share those ambitions in a way that engages her.
Women appreciate authenticity. If you show her your true self and your life goals, she’ll connect with the real you, not some version of you trying to impress her. The right woman will be drawn to your passions, ambitions, and character.
Be Confident in Your Value
90% of guys struggle to attract women because they don’t believe in their own worth. Even if they are great at other aspects of life, when they’re around women, they lose confidence. This lack of belief stems from past failures or rejections.
Remember, past experiences don’t define you. Just because a previous relationship didn’t work out doesn’t mean you’re not worthy of love. You are valuable, and when you believe that, it will show in your body language, tone, and energy.
Reframe Negative Past Experiences
Before you even go out to meet women, take a moment to remind yourself who you are and why you’re worthy of love. Walk into any venue with your head held high, your energy in check, and your confidence at full capacity. Women will notice this shift in energy, and they’ll be naturally drawn to you.
When you know your worth, your interactions with women will improve, and you’ll attract someone who fits into the life you’re building.
Close the Deal with Confidence
Once you’ve met the right woman, it’s time to create a deep connection. Talk about what matters to you, engage her with things you like about her, and express why you think the two of you would make a great match. You’re not just chasing a woman—you’re building a future with someone who complements your life.
By following this blueprint—knowing who you want, finding her in the right places, transforming your mindset, and building meaningful conversations—you’ll be golden. You’re not just meeting any woman; you’re meeting the right woman. You’ll feel confident about yourself, your worth, and the connection you’re building.
Until Next Time!
Magic Leone
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Magic!
Thank you so much for sharing your videos.
I actually ended up getting an One Night Stand right afterwatching your DVDs.
Seemed to work really well haha.
My handle is XXX if you want to read the report. Please let me know what you schedule is going to be like afteryou return from visiting your family.
I’d really like to schedule one of your training sessions.
Thanks again,
– Chris
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Thanks Magic! I made love with a girl this weekend who was my friend from long time.
With my new look and aggressiveness i think i was able to come out the safe guy mode.
You changed my life!
Sai Manohar
Hi Magic, I can’t begin to tell you how much I’ve learned from you so far.
I’ve read ‘social mastery’ watched the social circle DVD’s and had a 30 minute phone call with you.
All of this has made a big difference.
I had my first ‘back to back’ two weeks ago where I slept with two different girls for the first time. One of them was 25, which is really the age category I find myself attracted to (I’m 32).
Thanks,
-George
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I tried several aspects of social circle game just for one night at a dance club to see what happened.
After about 2 hours I realized that I could have slept with at least 5 or 6 girls just that night. It was ridiculous. And then I ran into a gorgeous 5’10” eastern bloc model with strawberry blonde hair and amazing bone structure named Natalia.
I used various techniques from your system. The next thing I knew she was dragging me outside to hail a cab back to her loft. The sex was incredible, sex usually is but what made this time so perfect, so gratifying was I wasn’t at the mercy of who was interested in me.
-Cole
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After getting your online book I had a girl take me home that weekend and now two weeks later another. While I’m slowly learning all you teach I think your book gave me the confidence to push through my social barriers that had built up via being more physical sooner, more playful and showing more direct interest. 🙂
Thanks keep up the amazing work and fresh perspective on the game.
-Ivan
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Hey Magic,
Life keeps getting more awesome! I wanted to let you know about the last time I went out.
I have several social circles that I know there along with seeing random friends there all the time. When I went last week I met one of Julies friends, Liz (very cute)who was very interested in me.
I was also talking to a girl (also very cute) from another group of friends and I had a feeling she was interested in me as well. Toward the end of the night I had both girls who were leaving with their friends trying to get me to go with them.
I basically had to decide which girl I wanted to take home that night. That was one of the best problems I have ever had! Liz, the girl I choose is very Bi and I think that could lead to more good things!
And I left things well with the other girl so that is still an option later. That night there was a lot of girls making out with girls and having three way kisses with me and 2 girls. It was a good night!
Talk to ya later
-Danny
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Hi Magic,
Everything you teach about dating and seduction fucking works.I met this girl at a mall . We decided to hangout the next day. She texted me the next day to confirm if we were still on for the date. This has never happened to me before.
She was nervous and told me that she never goes out with random guys on a date. I told her that I was nervous as well and then took her hand and put it on my chest to feel my heartbeat (I got this from your video Magic).
She was so turned on that she started kissing me and man it was awesome. She gave me the best kisses I ever got. She was licking my neck, ears and was kissing me wildly. She even caught my manhood and she could not stop herself.
I took her to my place right after this. I told her to masturbate in the car on the way to my place (This was the first time that I ever used it,and it fucking works like magic) She totally went with it. Use your imagination after this !!!!!
Thanks again MAGIC!!!!
RESPECT BRO…….
James!!!!
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Before I heard about you, I had literally spent years trying to make myself an attractive guy and had made very little progress.
I was focusing on all the wrong things. I was wasting my time in bars all over the city, because at that time, it felt like a job.
After I was introduced to your method , I just felt better about talking to women. I felt like there might be some progress that was happening or was about to happen.
Shortly after that, I met a woman. With the ideas you taught running through my head, I was able to be relaxed and fun enough that we ended up sleeping together right away.
Only a few weeks after she and I met, we admitted to one another that we were in love with each other.
I say “admitted” because we’d begun the relationship with the understanding that we would not get attached. She was married and I was more interested in being single.
That was over a year and a half ago. She and I are still together. She’s separated from her husband, whom I’ve met (he’s a pretty cool guy). Her mother knows about me and supports my girlfriend’s decisions. I’ll be meeting her very soon.
I hope I’ve made it clear that none of this would have happened without you. You taught me how to show my best self to the world.
You taught me how to recognize the opportunities that come my way. Most importantly, you taught me to believe that I deserve all of this.
Your work helped me develop a sense of self-worth that I didn’t even know I was missing. Thank you for that.
-Donovan
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Social Circle Dating is not a very good title for this product. Honestly, it’s a shit title. It should be called Life According to Magic.
When the video begins, Magic gives a brief overview of the topics he’s going to cover and it all sounds like exactly what you would expect: making friends, dating and sleeping with women in your social circle, dating and befriending co-workers, etc.
All of these things are explored in such depth and detail as to put Dale Carnegie to shame.
It soon becomes clear that Magic hasn’t produced a video about building and managing a social circle; he has put to record what, to my knowledge, is the most comprehensive overview of his knowledge, attitudes and perspectives.
By the end of the video, he’s no longer talking about making friends and getting laid; he’s telling you what it takes to be happy.
If you buy any one product from Magic, this should be it.
-Aaron
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Recently Met An ActressI want to thank you. You’re DVDs changed my life, and it is still on going.
I live in Korea, and it still works here.
I’ve been practicing with your stuff, I had succeeded with the 10s. Not even 9s, not 9.5s but 10s. Friends are amused of what I’ve done and doing.
Recently I met this ’10’ girl, who is an actress. Of course she is beautiful, and I wanted to know her better as I met her again and again so we’ve been dating for about a month.
We ended up making out, and I didn’t go any further than that. After that I walked her home, and said goodbye. I was happy that we are going to be in a relationship.
We made a short phone call(She called me to ask if I was back home well.) than slept.
Will update you soon!
-Kim
