Some time back I was visiting my friend in San Diego. He had a really cute 24 year old room mate who was single at the time. We hit it right off the bat but I did not want to get sexual with her without discussing this with my friend. After all it was his house that I was staying at and this was his roommate. Besides I did not know what the dynamics were between the two of them.

She started flirting more and more with me. At one point she started showing me her legs saying she shaved them today. Next she started talking about her breasts. She mentioned how she wished her boobs were little bigger. I knew exactly what she was trying to do. I mean you have to be an idiot to miss these screaming signs.

As much as I hate to admit I have missed such opportunities in the past. I remember going on a date few years back. This is when I did not have much experience with dating women. I went on a dinner date and back to her place. She made me sit on the bed right next to her – our bodies touching. I got up to leave and then she walked, held my hands, looked right into my eyes begging for sex. I hugged, said goodbye and left. My faulty belief system at the time did not permit me to believe that women can be as sexual as men. I could not convince myself that my date wanted to have sex the very first night of hanging out with me.

Of course that relationship did not go anywhere.

Coming back to San Diego, I did not miss the signs this time. I did hold back because i wanted to discussed this with my friend before making a move. After she went to bed my friend told me that he was ok if I wanted to sleep with this girl.

Few hours later I woke up to go to the bathroom. I hardly took few steps and noticed something on the floor. I picked it up and it was a black woman’s panty. This was another move on her part to seduce me and obviously it worked. I could not wait till the morning. I used the restroom and went straight to her room and we had crazy sex. Next morning I asked her about it and she confessed that she left her panties intentionally for me to notice.

I knew her panties on the floor were no accident. I knew it was left intentionally because sometime back another girl, I used to go to school with, did something similar. She handed me her basket ball shorts that I needed for an acting scene. She said “smell them and if you like it…” then winked. This was no joke she was serious.

I am not writing this to brag about my conquests with women. I am writing this to make a point: a woman will go out of her way to seduce a man once she is attracted to him. Not all signs will be this obvious. In fact most women will be very subtle in displaying their interest. Make sure you know how to read a woman’s body language. Make sure you know all about the love signals women send so you do not miss any opportunities.

Reading body language and interpreting cues can also help you in the early stages of seduction.

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