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In this post, I will explain how porn is secretly destroying your sex life, and your relationships.
I will then tell you how to watch porn the right way and what to do instead.
I will also coach you on how to rebuild your sex life.
So let’s get started.
First things first, I am not here to judge you or porn.
I am also not one of those who argues the morality of porn.
I am here to educate how it is impacting you and millions of other men.
If you said yes to any of these, you are suffering from porn.
Let me explain the impact, and then I will tell you what to do.
First, there is nothing wrong with watching porn from time to time. I do it, and most humans do.
I even watch it with women at times, and it is a lot of fun.
Porn poses a serious danger to men who have been single or have not had any action in a while.
When you are single and watch porn for a long time, porn becomes the stimulant that arouses you.
Think about your past for a second.
There was a time when you got aroused upon seeing the slightest skin of a woman.
You are now struggling to get an erection and maintain it even with a naked woman in your bed.
Skin alone is not enough to arouse you any longer.
Most porn has extreme scenarios.
The woman is screaming in joy. She is getting pounded. The guy is having sex with two best friends and even sisters, there is bondage, and the list goes on.
Exposure to these scenes have rewired your arousal mechanism.
You now, need something extreme, over the top, taboo, or at least a scenario to get aroused.
In most cases, this does not happen.
As a result, you do not get an erection, and struggle to maintain it.
You begin to wonder if you are getting erectile dysfunction.
This makes you nervous, and you start avoiding sex.
You enjoy watching porn and masturbating more than being with a partner.
Your partner feels unsatisfied.
Her frustration starts to show in little fights she picks with you.
She may even talk to you about it a few times.
When this keeps going on for a while, and sex life does not improve, she ends the relationship with you.
Other times, you tell yourself that the woman you are with is not hot enough to keep you aroused and end the relationship.
In short, because of porn, you lose your ability to enjoy sex.
You feel you have lost your ability to perform.
You start taking pills.
You avoid sex and even push women away.
This destroys your relationships, adds to your insecurity, and kills your love life.
Lately, I have had several clients asking me to help them improve their sex life.
Recently a client told me how he is struggling to find women he finds attractive.
He then told me that he does not enjoy sex with them.
He continued with his laundry list that I hear from clients suffering from porn over and over.
I knew exactly what was going on.
He was trying to fix his confidence and learn seduction moves.
I knew there is no way he will feel confident and flirt fearlessly, if deep down, he has performance issues.
No matter what I teach him, he will either reject it or not put it to use because of his fear of sex.
I started working on this part of his life.
The funny part is that he started getting hot women, even before we could get to seduction.
This is not uncommon.
I cannot tell you how many men struggle with this problem, and often I have to start by helping them with their sexual confidence.
The first thing you should do is a quick test to verify this theory.
See if you get normal erections most of the time when you are by yourself.
Do you lose it when you are taking care of yourself?
If it is working, you are fine. Then it is a matter of retraining your arousal mechanism.
It is easy to reverse this situation, but it will take some commitment from your end.
Start by stopping to watch porn. You can pick it up later, but for now, no more porn.
Replace porn with photos. The reason we want to do this is that we want to be able to get aroused by looking at women instead of porn.
This way, you will start enjoying women and get aroused by them.
At first, you will not get aroused looking at the photos, but that will change with time.
Next, stop masturbating.
This is not easy, but important.
If you keep masturbating, you will never develop the tension and the urgency to get the release from masturbation.
You need to keep enjoying photos of women.
At the same time, you need to keep building up your sexual tension until you reach a point where you cannot take it anymore.
Then take care of business looking at and enjoying the photo.
Just as you want to avoid porn, you also want to avoid thinking about a storyline or fantasy.
Otherwise, you will always need fantasy to enjoy.
We want to experience arousal and pleasure looking at the woman.
You can also use a different look each time you do this. This way, you do not et wired to one particular look.
At first, it will be hard to enjoy and complete the activity.
But hopefully, the build-up will help you.
Do not give in to the temptation and think you will watch porn or fantasize one last time.
If you do that, I promise you will do this every time.
If you are serious about fixing this issue so you can start enjoying women and sex again, then go through the pain.
Soon you will begin to enjoy the process and even get aroused looking at women.
Now, you will be able to enjoy your love life.
From here on, you can watch porn from time to time, but not all the time.
You can even watch it with your partner sometimes for fun.
Just be sure not to get rewired to this pattern.
Magic!
Thank you so much for sharing your videos.
I actually ended up getting an One Night Stand right afterwatching your DVDs.
Seemed to work really well haha.
My handle is XXX if you want to read the report. Please let me know what you schedule is going to be like afteryou return from visiting your family.
I’d really like to schedule one of your training sessions.
Thanks again,
– Chris
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Thanks Magic! I made love with a girl this weekend who was my friend from long time.
With my new look and aggressiveness i think i was able to come out the safe guy mode.
You changed my life!
Sai Manohar
Hi Magic, I can’t begin to tell you how much I’ve learned from you so far.
I’ve read ‘social mastery’ watched the social circle DVD’s and had a 30 minute phone call with you.
All of this has made a big difference.
I had my first ‘back to back’ two weeks ago where I slept with two different girls for the first time. One of them was 25, which is really the age category I find myself attracted to (I’m 32).
Thanks,
-George
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I tried several aspects of social circle game just for one night at a dance club to see what happened.
After about 2 hours I realized that I could have slept with at least 5 or 6 girls just that night. It was ridiculous. And then I ran into a gorgeous 5’10” eastern bloc model with strawberry blonde hair and amazing bone structure named Natalia.
I used various techniques from your system. The next thing I knew she was dragging me outside to hail a cab back to her loft. The sex was incredible, sex usually is but what made this time so perfect, so gratifying was I wasn’t at the mercy of who was interested in me.
-Cole
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After getting your online book I had a girl take me home that weekend and now two weeks later another. While I’m slowly learning all you teach I think your book gave me the confidence to push through my social barriers that had built up via being more physical sooner, more playful and showing more direct interest. 🙂
Thanks keep up the amazing work and fresh perspective on the game.
-Ivan
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Hey Magic,
Life keeps getting more awesome! I wanted to let you know about the last time I went out.
I have several social circles that I know there along with seeing random friends there all the time. When I went last week I met one of Julies friends, Liz (very cute)who was very interested in me.
I was also talking to a girl (also very cute) from another group of friends and I had a feeling she was interested in me as well. Toward the end of the night I had both girls who were leaving with their friends trying to get me to go with them.
I basically had to decide which girl I wanted to take home that night. That was one of the best problems I have ever had! Liz, the girl I choose is very Bi and I think that could lead to more good things!
And I left things well with the other girl so that is still an option later. That night there was a lot of girls making out with girls and having three way kisses with me and 2 girls. It was a good night!
Talk to ya later
-Danny
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Hi Magic,
Everything you teach about dating and seduction fucking works.I met this girl at a mall . We decided to hangout the next day. She texted me the next day to confirm if we were still on for the date. This has never happened to me before.
She was nervous and told me that she never goes out with random guys on a date. I told her that I was nervous as well and then took her hand and put it on my chest to feel my heartbeat (I got this from your video Magic).
She was so turned on that she started kissing me and man it was awesome. She gave me the best kisses I ever got. She was licking my neck, ears and was kissing me wildly. She even caught my manhood and she could not stop herself.
I took her to my place right after this. I told her to masturbate in the car on the way to my place (This was the first time that I ever used it,and it fucking works like magic) She totally went with it. Use your imagination after this !!!!!
Thanks again MAGIC!!!!
RESPECT BRO…….
James!!!!
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Before I heard about you, I had literally spent years trying to make myself an attractive guy and had made very little progress.
I was focusing on all the wrong things. I was wasting my time in bars all over the city, because at that time, it felt like a job.
After I was introduced to your method , I just felt better about talking to women. I felt like there might be some progress that was happening or was about to happen.
Shortly after that, I met a woman. With the ideas you taught running through my head, I was able to be relaxed and fun enough that we ended up sleeping together right away.
Only a few weeks after she and I met, we admitted to one another that we were in love with each other.
I say “admitted” because we’d begun the relationship with the understanding that we would not get attached. She was married and I was more interested in being single.
That was over a year and a half ago. She and I are still together. She’s separated from her husband, whom I’ve met (he’s a pretty cool guy). Her mother knows about me and supports my girlfriend’s decisions. I’ll be meeting her very soon.
I hope I’ve made it clear that none of this would have happened without you. You taught me how to show my best self to the world.
You taught me how to recognize the opportunities that come my way. Most importantly, you taught me to believe that I deserve all of this.
Your work helped me develop a sense of self-worth that I didn’t even know I was missing. Thank you for that.
-Donovan
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Social Circle Dating is not a very good title for this product. Honestly, it’s a shit title. It should be called Life According to Magic.
When the video begins, Magic gives a brief overview of the topics he’s going to cover and it all sounds like exactly what you would expect: making friends, dating and sleeping with women in your social circle, dating and befriending co-workers, etc.
All of these things are explored in such depth and detail as to put Dale Carnegie to shame.
It soon becomes clear that Magic hasn’t produced a video about building and managing a social circle; he has put to record what, to my knowledge, is the most comprehensive overview of his knowledge, attitudes and perspectives.
By the end of the video, he’s no longer talking about making friends and getting laid; he’s telling you what it takes to be happy.
If you buy any one product from Magic, this should be it.
-Aaron
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Recently Met An ActressI want to thank you. You’re DVDs changed my life, and it is still on going.
I live in Korea, and it still works here.
I’ve been practicing with your stuff, I had succeeded with the 10s. Not even 9s, not 9.5s but 10s. Friends are amused of what I’ve done and doing.
Recently I met this ’10’ girl, who is an actress. Of course she is beautiful, and I wanted to know her better as I met her again and again so we’ve been dating for about a month.
We ended up making out, and I didn’t go any further than that. After that I walked her home, and said goodbye. I was happy that we are going to be in a relationship.
We made a short phone call(She called me to ask if I was back home well.) than slept.
Will update you soon!
-Kim
