If you are looking for ways to meet women at bars and have a same-night lay – even if it has never happened to you before – read this page.
It does not matter if you are shy, lack confidence, or are clueless about the process. My clients have used this strategy for years. They have been crushing it and having same-night lays with girls regularly.
Learn what they are doing, do the same, and start having same-night lays.
Most men lose their chances of having a same-night lay the minute they approach a woman.
They enter the bar and start approaching women randomly, which backfires.
The woman you approach inside a bar does not know you. She has to accept or reject you instantly based on your first impression.
Most men just starting or learning to meet women do not have the confidence and the first impression to charm the woman, so they get rejected.
Or they start talking to the woman, and their conversations derail, which kills their interaction and chances of having a same-night lay.
On the contrary, if the woman has noticed you. She has seen you walk confidently, maybe, made eye contact with you, and watched you talk to others.
She will have a good impression of you. You are no longer a random guy but a guy with high status.
She will even be curious to talk to you.
Now, she will talk to you, engage you, and even flirt with you when you approach her.
Often a woman who has noticed you will position herself close to you, hoping you will start a conversation with her.
I teach my clients to walk up to the bar or across the room when they enter. I teach them to make eye contact with every woman on the way.
Then go to the bar and turn around to reengage eye contact with the woman who locked eye contact while he was walking to the bar.
Any woman looking in his direction or re-engaging with eye contact is interested in him.
He can confidently approach this woman.
Men feel special when a woman sleeps with them. Women need to feel special before they sleep with us.
They need to know that you are not choosing them because they are easy or the only option you have.
They need to feel that you chose them above other women.
This is easy to accomplish: Praise her for something you value in her and build value for yourself.
For example, when a woman says she is an accountant don’t just say cool.
Instead, respond by saying I am impressed.
Accounting is a mentally taxing job.
You have such good energy despite doing taxes all day.
I like that about you. I am the same way.
I love to enjoy life, so I never carry work stress.
This makes your compliment believable, and you appear confident.
She will feel that you see something in her that others do not.
She will now be more open to you.
99% of men drop the ball in this stage. They are too scared to generate sexual tension or they do it wrong and drive women away.
Women have a nice good girl, church-going person side to them. Then they have a sexually charged side that they only reveal to their lovers.
The side she shows you will depend on how she sees you and how she feels around you.
And if you can learn to open women up sexually to you and generate sexual tension every time you are talking to them, you will have more same-night lays than Casanova.
Most men will start touching women too soon.
Some will talk for a while and assume it is ok to touch or get sexual because they have been talking for this long.
All of this creep women out.
You need to start generating sexual tension from the early stages of the interaction using eye contact, touch, compliments, energy, teasing, and conversation.
Start slow and pace in accordance with her comfort level and response.
For example, start making extended eye contact. Go for an extended handshake. Give her a compliment.
When she is comfortable and starts touching you, take things to the next level.
Hold her hands, look in her eyes, and brush her arms.
If she is still comfortable and she meets you with similar gestures, tell her you like her and go for the kiss.
If she kisses back, escalate even more then tell her you can’t take it anymore. Tell her you to want her right now. Then take her by the hands and say let’s go to my place.
Watch specific examples to generate sexual tension in the video from marker 7.11 onwards. You will learn powerful moves to arouse women that you can execute tonight and take them home for a same-night lay.