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In this video, I’m about to break down why speed dating often feels like a frustrating waste of time—and more importantly, I’m going to show you a better way to turn things around.
Imagine this: you walk into a speed dating event, and by the end of the night, at least 80-90% of the women you meet want to see you again.
You’re going on instant dates with five or six women, and at least one of them ends up going home with you. You keep seeing the rest, and your dating life takes a whole new trajectory.
Sounds incredible, right?
Well, I’m here to tell you it’s possible, and it all starts by understanding the flaws in the speed dating setup and learning how to flip the script in your favor. So, let’s dive in.
Speed dating is flawed by design. The first major issue is that you’re at the mercy of the women. Think about it—you have no control over who you can date, no way to influence the outcome. You’re essentially waiting for a woman to decide if you’re worth her time. It’s like being in a game where you’re playing defense the entire time, hoping for a win rather than creating one.
Then there’s the issue of time—speed dating simply doesn’t allow enough of it to build a genuine connection. You meet someone, chat for a couple of minutes, and then you’re left wondering all night if she’s going to want to see you again. By the time you get that information, reach out, and wait for a response, the spark has often fizzled out.
Here’s the harsh truth: speed dating sets you up for disappointment. You might think you’ve done everything right—you’re a cool guy, you shared interesting things about yourself, and she even seemed to like you. But then, nothing. No follow-up, no date, and you’re left questioning what went wrong.
So, how do you turn the tables and gain an unfair advantage in speed dating? It’s all about demonstrating value and attracting women based on that value. This isn’t just about dating—it’s a life philosophy that applies to work, business, friendships, everything. You need to stop chasing and start attracting.
Here’s the thing: society has conditioned us to please others to win them over. From our parents to our teachers and bosses, we’ve been taught to seek approval by making others happy. But in dating, this mentality kills attraction. When you try to win a woman over by pleasing her, you come across as needy and less desirable.
Scientific Insight: Research from the University of Toronto has shown that individuals who exhibit confidence and assertiveness are perceived as more attractive and are more likely to be successful in social interactions.
So, how do you do this in a speed dating setting?
First, raise your volume by just 10%.
When you speak slightly louder, you come across as more confident and assertive.
It’s a small adjustment, but it has a huge impact.
Picture this—you’re in a room full of people, but when you speak, your voice cuts through the noise like a lion’s roar. Suddenly, all eyes are on you. That’s the power of volume and confidence.
Most guys try to match the woman’s energy or tone themselves down to seem agreeable. Not you. By raising your volume, you take control of the interaction, signaling that you’re the dominant one in the conversation.
Now, as you engage with these women, focus on showcasing your personality rather than trying to impress them with your achievements. Compliment their life choices in a genuine way. If she’s a nurse, for example, say something like, “That’s incredible. I admire people who can handle such a challenging job. You’re my kind of girl.”
Remember, other women are watching too. Even if they’re talking to someone else, they’re paying attention to you. They notice that you’re the confident guy who’s different from all the others—the guy who’s not trying to fit in but who owns the room with his energy and presence.
As you move through the speed dating event, set up instant dates. After a few minutes of conversation, suggest grabbing a drink together after the event. Say something like, “You’re really cool. I’d love to get to know you better. What do you say we have a drink before we call it a night?”
By the end of the night, you’ll have at least five or six women who want to hang out with you. Imagine walking out of the event with a small group of women, all eager to spend more time with you. You’re no longer just a participant—you’re the center of attention.
You’re not just another guy who’s going home alone, waiting to see if he gets a text back—you’re the guy everyone wants to be around. In the eyes of these women, you’re now the “hot girl” surrounded by admirers.
Until Next Time!
Magic Leone
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Magic!
Thank you so much for sharing your videos.
I actually ended up getting an One Night Stand right afterwatching your DVDs.
Seemed to work really well haha.
My handle is XXX if you want to read the report. Please let me know what you schedule is going to be like afteryou return from visiting your family.
I’d really like to schedule one of your training sessions.
Thanks again,
– Chris
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Thanks Magic! I made love with a girl this weekend who was my friend from long time.
With my new look and aggressiveness i think i was able to come out the safe guy mode.
You changed my life!
Sai Manohar
Hi Magic, I can’t begin to tell you how much I’ve learned from you so far.
I’ve read ‘social mastery’ watched the social circle DVD’s and had a 30 minute phone call with you.
All of this has made a big difference.
I had my first ‘back to back’ two weeks ago where I slept with two different girls for the first time. One of them was 25, which is really the age category I find myself attracted to (I’m 32).
Thanks,
-George
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I tried several aspects of social circle game just for one night at a dance club to see what happened.
After about 2 hours I realized that I could have slept with at least 5 or 6 girls just that night. It was ridiculous. And then I ran into a gorgeous 5’10” eastern bloc model with strawberry blonde hair and amazing bone structure named Natalia.
I used various techniques from your system. The next thing I knew she was dragging me outside to hail a cab back to her loft. The sex was incredible, sex usually is but what made this time so perfect, so gratifying was I wasn’t at the mercy of who was interested in me.
-Cole
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After getting your online book I had a girl take me home that weekend and now two weeks later another. While I’m slowly learning all you teach I think your book gave me the confidence to push through my social barriers that had built up via being more physical sooner, more playful and showing more direct interest. 🙂
Thanks keep up the amazing work and fresh perspective on the game.
-Ivan
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Hey Magic,
Life keeps getting more awesome! I wanted to let you know about the last time I went out.
I have several social circles that I know there along with seeing random friends there all the time. When I went last week I met one of Julies friends, Liz (very cute)who was very interested in me.
I was also talking to a girl (also very cute) from another group of friends and I had a feeling she was interested in me as well. Toward the end of the night I had both girls who were leaving with their friends trying to get me to go with them.
I basically had to decide which girl I wanted to take home that night. That was one of the best problems I have ever had! Liz, the girl I choose is very Bi and I think that could lead to more good things!
And I left things well with the other girl so that is still an option later. That night there was a lot of girls making out with girls and having three way kisses with me and 2 girls. It was a good night!
Talk to ya later
-Danny
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Hi Magic,
Everything you teach about dating and seduction fucking works.I met this girl at a mall . We decided to hangout the next day. She texted me the next day to confirm if we were still on for the date. This has never happened to me before.
She was nervous and told me that she never goes out with random guys on a date. I told her that I was nervous as well and then took her hand and put it on my chest to feel my heartbeat (I got this from your video Magic).
She was so turned on that she started kissing me and man it was awesome. She gave me the best kisses I ever got. She was licking my neck, ears and was kissing me wildly. She even caught my manhood and she could not stop herself.
I took her to my place right after this. I told her to masturbate in the car on the way to my place (This was the first time that I ever used it,and it fucking works like magic) She totally went with it. Use your imagination after this !!!!!
Thanks again MAGIC!!!!
RESPECT BRO…….
James!!!!
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Before I heard about you, I had literally spent years trying to make myself an attractive guy and had made very little progress.
I was focusing on all the wrong things. I was wasting my time in bars all over the city, because at that time, it felt like a job.
After I was introduced to your method , I just felt better about talking to women. I felt like there might be some progress that was happening or was about to happen.
Shortly after that, I met a woman. With the ideas you taught running through my head, I was able to be relaxed and fun enough that we ended up sleeping together right away.
Only a few weeks after she and I met, we admitted to one another that we were in love with each other.
I say “admitted” because we’d begun the relationship with the understanding that we would not get attached. She was married and I was more interested in being single.
That was over a year and a half ago. She and I are still together. She’s separated from her husband, whom I’ve met (he’s a pretty cool guy). Her mother knows about me and supports my girlfriend’s decisions. I’ll be meeting her very soon.
I hope I’ve made it clear that none of this would have happened without you. You taught me how to show my best self to the world.
You taught me how to recognize the opportunities that come my way. Most importantly, you taught me to believe that I deserve all of this.
Your work helped me develop a sense of self-worth that I didn’t even know I was missing. Thank you for that.
-Donovan
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Social Circle Dating is not a very good title for this product. Honestly, it’s a shit title. It should be called Life According to Magic.
When the video begins, Magic gives a brief overview of the topics he’s going to cover and it all sounds like exactly what you would expect: making friends, dating and sleeping with women in your social circle, dating and befriending co-workers, etc.
All of these things are explored in such depth and detail as to put Dale Carnegie to shame.
It soon becomes clear that Magic hasn’t produced a video about building and managing a social circle; he has put to record what, to my knowledge, is the most comprehensive overview of his knowledge, attitudes and perspectives.
By the end of the video, he’s no longer talking about making friends and getting laid; he’s telling you what it takes to be happy.
If you buy any one product from Magic, this should be it.
-Aaron
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Recently Met An ActressI want to thank you. You’re DVDs changed my life, and it is still on going.
I live in Korea, and it still works here.
I’ve been practicing with your stuff, I had succeeded with the 10s. Not even 9s, not 9.5s but 10s. Friends are amused of what I’ve done and doing.
Recently I met this ’10’ girl, who is an actress. Of course she is beautiful, and I wanted to know her better as I met her again and again so we’ve been dating for about a month.
We ended up making out, and I didn’t go any further than that. After that I walked her home, and said goodbye. I was happy that we are going to be in a relationship.
We made a short phone call(She called me to ask if I was back home well.) than slept.
Will update you soon!
-Kim
