This Kills Attraction – What To Do Instead

Today I want to talk about a common mistake that many guys make when it comes to dating.

It’s a mistake that can seriously sabotage your chances of attracting women and building meaningful relationships.

So, what’s this mistake? Well, it’s treating dating like a business transaction.

Let me explain.

The Business Mindset

Imagine this scenario: you take a woman out to a fancy restaurant, you fly across the country to spend a romantic weekend with her, you shower her with expensive gifts and gestures.

And then, you expect her to reciprocate by being all over you, showing you affection, and treating you like a king.

But here’s the thing – when you start putting these expectations on the relationship, things can quickly go south.


Because most people can sense when there’s an agenda.

They want to be with you because they genuinely want to be with you, not because they feel obligated to reciprocate your gestures.

A woman wants to be with you, touch you, kiss you, and be romantic with you because it’s her choice, not because you’ve manipulated or positioned her in a place where she feels compelled to do so.

When you try to control the situation, you’re putting her on the defensive, and you’re likely to lose her.

The Neediness factor

Another consequence of this behavior is that it makes you appear needy.

Even if a woman initially liked you and valued you, she’ll start to see this needy, manipulating side of you, and it can be a major turn-off.

You may not even realize that this is the problem, as most guys don’t understand the undertone of their actions.

But here’s the truth: when you try to win a woman’s love by chasing her and constantly seeking her approval, it pushes her away.

She was almost ready to be with you, but your actions in this manner made her take a step back.

It’s important to remember that attraction cannot be forced or tricked.

The Rules of Attraction

If you want to become successful in attracting women, there are two rules that you absolutely need to master.

The first rule is to attract, not chase.

Instead of trying to win someone’s love, focus on being someone that people naturally gravitate towards.

The second rule is to lead people with emotions.

This means creating a connection based on genuine emotions rather than following a rigid rulebook.

If you can apply these two rules to your everyday behavior, you’ll start drawing people to you on autopilot.

For example, when someone asks you what you do for a living, instead of just giving a straightforward answer like “I’m an engineer” or “I work as a freelancer,” take the opportunity to present that information in a manner that paints a picture of an attractive lifestyle.

Share your values, dreams, and aspirations.

Talk about the unique journey you’re on and how it aligns with your happiness and freedom.

Paint a picture that makes the other person want to be a part of your life and your journey.

The Power of Emotion

Remember, decisions are made based on emotions.

Whether you’re attracting a woman, trying to get a promotion, or selling a product, you need to present a dream or a journey that others are eager to be a part of.

By leading with emotions, you create a magical chemistry between you and the other person.

They should feel lucky to be with you, desired by you.

It’s not about following a manual or a set of rules, but about creating a genuine connection based on shared emotions.

Identifying Your Values

In order to effectively present yourself and attract others, it’s crucial to spend time identifying your own values and what makes you unique.

Even if you’re still in the process of achieving your dreams, whether it’s in your career or personal life, you can still present your journey in an attractive way.

Maybe you’re in debt and working towards financial stability.

Maybe you’re in the transition of finding a new job or pursuing a creative passion.

The key is to focus on the journey, the hero’s journey, and present it in a way that makes others want to be a part of it.

Identify the aspects of your life that make you special and learn how to present them in an attractive way.

It’s not about bragging or boasting, but about sharing your passions and dreams in a way that captivates others.

Becoming Unstoppable

If you can master the art of attraction and leading with emotions, you’ll become unstoppable in your dating life, personal relationships, and even in business.

People will be drawn to you because you’ll be the person on a unique journey that nobody else can offer.

So take the time to identify your values, learn how to present yourself in an attractive way, and don’t be afraid to seek guidance or attend workshops that can help you further develop these skills.

Attracting women and building effortless connections is within your reach.

Remember, it’s not about treating dating like a business transaction, but about creating genuine connections based on shared emotions.

So go out there, be yourself, and watch as people are naturally drawn to you.


Until Next Time!

Magic Leone

Had One Night Stand After Watching DVDs


Thank you so much for sharing your videos.

I actually ended up getting an One Night Stand right afterwatching your DVDs.

Seemed to work really well haha.

My handle is XXX if you want to read the report. Please let me know what you schedule is going to be like afteryou return from visiting your family.

I’d really like to schedule one of your training sessions.

Thanks again,
– Chris
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Made Love With A Girl Who Was My Long-Time Friend!

Thanks Magic! I made love with a girl this weekend who was my friend from long time.

With my new look and aggressiveness i think i was able to come out the safe guy mode.

You changed my life!
Sai Manohar

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Slept With Two Different Girls Back To Back!

Hi Magic, I can’t begin to tell you how much I’ve learned from you so far.

I’ve read ‘social mastery’ watched the social circle DVD’s and had a 30 minute phone call with you.

All of this has made a big difference.

I had my first ‘back to back’ two weeks ago where I slept with two different girls for the first time. One of them was 25, which is really the age category I find myself attracted to (I’m 32).

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Pulled 5’10” Eastern Bloc Model Home The Same Night Using This System!

I tried several aspects of social circle game just for one night at a dance club to see what happened.

After about 2 hours I realized that I could have slept with at least 5 or 6 girls just that night. It was ridiculous. And then I ran into a gorgeous 5’10” eastern bloc model with strawberry blonde hair and amazing bone structure named Natalia.

I used various techniques from your system. The next thing I knew she was dragging me outside to hail a cab back to her loft. The sex was incredible, sex usually is but what made this time so perfect, so gratifying was I wasn’t at the mercy of who was interested in me.

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I Had A Girl Take Me Home That Weekend And Now Two Weeks Later Another!

After getting your online book I had a girl take me home that weekend and now two weeks later another. While I’m slowly learning all you teach I think your book gave me the confidence to push through my social barriers that had built up via being more physical sooner, more playful and showing more direct interest. 🙂

Thanks keep up the amazing work and fresh perspective on the game.

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Girls Were Having Three Way Kisses With Me And Wanted To Take Me Home

Hey Magic,

Life keeps getting more awesome! I wanted to let you know about the last time I went out.

I have several social circles that I know there along with seeing random friends there all the time. When I went last week I met one of Julies friends, Liz (very cute)who was very interested in me.

I was also talking to a girl (also very cute) from another group of friends and I had a feeling she was interested in me as well. Toward the end of the night I had both girls who were leaving with their friends trying to get me to go with them.

I basically had to decide which girl I wanted to take home that night. That was one of the best problems I have ever had! Liz, the girl I choose is very Bi and I think that could lead to more good things!

And I left things well with the other girl so that is still an option later. That night there was a lot of girls making out with girls and having three way kisses with me and 2 girls. It was a good night!

Talk to ya later

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Had Sex The Same Night With A Girl I Met At A Shopping Mall

Hi Magic,

Everything you teach about dating and seduction fucking works.I met this girl at a mall . We decided to hangout the next day. She texted me the next day to confirm if we were still on for the date. This has never happened to me before.

She was nervous and told me that she never goes out with random guys on a date. I told her that I was nervous as well and then took her hand and put it on my chest to feel my heartbeat (I got this from your video Magic).

She was so turned on that she started kissing me and man it was awesome. She gave me the best kisses I ever got. She was licking my neck, ears and was kissing me wildly. She even caught my manhood and she could not stop herself.

I took her to my place right after this. I told her to masturbate in the car on the way to my place (This was the first time that I ever used it,and it fucking works like magic) She totally went with it. Use your imagination after this !!!!!

Thanks again MAGIC!!!!
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Dating Married Woman Who Left Her Husband For Me!

Before I heard about you, I had literally spent years trying to make myself an attractive guy and had made very little progress.

I was focusing on all the wrong things. I was wasting my time in bars all over the city, because at that time, it felt like a job.

After I was introduced to your method , I just felt better about talking to women. I felt like there might be some progress that was happening or was about to happen.

Shortly after that, I met a woman. With the ideas you taught running through my head, I was able to be relaxed and fun enough that we ended up sleeping together right away.

Only a few weeks after she and I met, we admitted to one another that we were in love with each other.

I say “admitted” because we’d begun the relationship with the understanding that we would not get attached. She was married and I was more interested in being single.

That was over a year and a half ago. She and I are still together. She’s separated from her husband, whom I’ve met (he’s a pretty cool guy). Her mother knows about me and supports my girlfriend’s decisions. I’ll be meeting her very soon.

I hope I’ve made it clear that none of this would have happened without you. You taught me how to show my best self to the world.

You taught me how to recognize the opportunities that come my way. Most importantly, you taught me to believe that I deserve all of this.

Your work helped me develop a sense of self-worth that I didn’t even know I was missing. Thank you for that.
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“Magic Put Dale Carnegie To Shame”

Social Circle Dating is not a very good title for this product. Honestly, it’s a shit title. It should be called Life According to Magic.

When the video begins, Magic gives a brief overview of the topics he’s going to cover and it all sounds like exactly what you would expect: making friends, dating and sleeping with women in your social circle, dating and befriending co-workers, etc.

All of these things are explored in such depth and detail as to put Dale Carnegie to shame.

It soon becomes clear that Magic hasn’t produced a video about building and managing a social circle; he has put to record what, to my knowledge, is the most comprehensive overview of his knowledge, attitudes and perspectives.

By the end of the video, he’s no longer talking about making friends and getting laid; he’s telling you what it takes to be happy.

If you buy any one product from Magic, this should be it.
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Recently Met An Actress

I want to thank you. You’re DVDs changed my life, and it is still on going.
I live in Korea, and it still works here.

I’ve been practicing with your stuff, I had succeeded with the 10s. Not even 9s, not 9.5s but 10s. Friends are amused of what I’ve done and doing.

Recently I met this ’10’ girl, who is an actress. Of course she is beautiful, and I wanted to know her better as I met her again and again so we’ve been dating for about a month.

We ended up making out, and I didn’t go any further than that. After that I walked her home, and said goodbye. I was happy that we are going to be in a relationship.

We made a short phone call(She called me to ask if I was back home well.) than slept.

Will update you soon!

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