If you have been following me for a while, then you know I prefer sex before dating.
There is nothing wrong with going on a few dates before getting intimate.
In this video, I will explain why you should get intimate first and how to get women on board with this plan.
I cannot wait for 3 dates to get intimate with a woman when I like her. I have no idea how people do it, but I can’t.
When I like a woman, I want her now and not tomorrow.
I have a simple philosophy: If I can wait a day or two to be with this woman, I do not have a strong attraction for her.
I do not go to bed with women only for sex.
I go to bed because of the feelings, desire, and attraction I experience for them.
I want to hold, hug, touch, kiss, and romance with her right away.
How can anyone wait when they are with a woman they find fascinating. I can’t!
I love the rush and the urgency to be with her right away, and this feeling makes me want her now.
Why be with a woman who does not trigger a strong desire to be with her?
I have been with some women with whom I had zero bedroom compatibility.
I have been with women who are too shy to undress in front of men.
Some can only get intimate with the light turned off or inside the sheets, and so on.
I am the complete opposite.
I enjoy sex in every form.
I see it as a pleasurable activity.
I see it as playtime for partners.
I have a mature yet juvenile attitude toward sex. I want to explore and try new things, no matter how silly they sound.
I want sex in the bedroom, on the floor, in the kitchen while she is cooking, watching TV, on the beach, and anywhere else you can imagine.
I one time had sex on a tree – try that for fun.
As I mentioned, sex is a game for me.
I do not just want to hump a woman. I want my partner and me to enjoy and giggle about our sexual adventures.
So I need a partner who is on the same level as me. I need someone who enjoys and desires sex as much as me.
I don’t want someone who sees sex as a tool to make babies or an act they are obligated to perform with their partner in a relationship.
So if a woman only wants to do it under the sheets or can’t undress in front of me, it will never work between us.
I can immediately tell if we are right for each other or not When I go to bed with a woman.
This saves us both precious time of going on 3 dates, then sleeping together and discovering we are incompatible.
I do not have time to go on 3 dates with 5 women. I am too busy for that.
Dating takes a lot of effort and texting. I hate putting in that much work.
I can sit with a woman and talk non-stop for 10 years, but I hate typing and sending a single hello. Then wait for her response, exchange pleasantries, and make plans for a date that may or may not happen.
Expectations change after couples get intimate.
Couples do not have to work hard anymore. Now texting is more about when can do we see each other again.
It eliminates work and makes dating joyful.
This brings me to my next point.
Couples are on their best behavior until they get intimate.
Once you go to bed and sexual tension reduces, you start to see their true colors.
Now, you also get to compatibility in other areas.
For example, I am an early riser. I enjoy watching the sunrise.
I prefer a partner who wakes up early instead of calling me a rooster for getting up at 5am.
I love to cuddle in bed. I love when a woman I am sleeping with gets close to me, puts her face under my face, wraps my hands around her, and asks me to hold her tight.
Many women do not like touching when in bed.
You get to test compatibility in other areas when you are past the intimacy.
You are not going to match everything. It will be boring if you do.
But you need to be sure your habits match essentials like hygiene, lifestyle, family values, life goals, and so on.
I can waste 15 days before getting to his stage or get there pronto.
I cannot remember a day in the 6-7 years when I left my home and did not get hit on by some woman.
Women have approached me even when I am with girlfriends.
Now, imagine what happens to women.
In addition, many women hope to meet someone who can help them advance their careers.
For example, many women in LA go to bars for networking.
Three days after your first meeting, she is already talking to another guy or thinking about a prospect.
Her feelings for you have simmered.
However, this is not the case when women get intimate.
Most women do not sleep with a lot of guys. So when they sleep with one, he becomes special.
Women think of him, talk to him, and see him regularly.
Once again, this gives you the best shot at having a relationship.
Over the years, I had several experiences that convinced me that getting intimate first works best for me.
It may not be for you, and that is ok too.
I am just sharing my approach to dating.
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Until Next Time!