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It’s one of the worst things that happens to us men—it strikes at the worst possible time. We finally meet the kind of woman we’ve been waiting for, the one we want to date, marry, and spend the rest of our lives with. But when the moment arrives, our brain goes blank. We freeze up, unable to approach, unsure of what to say. We’re just stuck, feeling powerless.
And sometimes, even if she initiates the interaction, we still don’t know what to do. We cut the interaction short, walk away, and later find ourselves angry, disappointed, even hating ourselves for not knowing what to do in that moment. But it doesn’t have to be this way. Here, I’m going to share why this happens and how you can change that, so next time you see someone like her, you can walk up confidently and make her yours.
When most men are asked why they freeze up, they say it’s because they don’t know what to say. They believe they lack the magic lines, funny routines, or conversation pieces that trigger attraction. This belief comes from watching couples flirt, seeing women laugh, touch, and focus on a guy. They think if only they had the right words, the laughter and attraction would follow.
But let me bust that myth: attraction has nothing to do with conversation. The truth is, attraction carries the conversation, not the other way around. We’ve all heard of “love at first sight,” right? There are no words in that moment. 70 to 80% of attraction is non-verbal, so your conversation alone won’t win her over.
So, why do we freeze up? It’s because of an imbalance we create unconsciously. When we see a woman who has all the qualities we’re looking for, we build her up in our minds. She’s beautiful, smart, dressed well—she becomes this high-value person, almost like a princess. But while we’re raising her level, we aren’t raising ours.
This value imbalance makes us feel less than her. We shift from “I’m good enough for this girl” to “I need to work hard to win her over.” This thinking—of feeling less and needing to prove ourselves—creates nervousness and makes us freeze.
The solution isn’t memorizing conversation pieces or routines. The real shift needs to happen in your mind. You need to feel as good as, or even superior to, her. When you believe you’re valuable, confidence follows naturally.
Let me share a story from one of my workshops. I was training a successful CEO, a guy who had built and sold multiple companies. Despite his success, when it came to approaching women, he would feel timid, nervous, and hesitant.
We had a conversation, and I reminded him of his achievements, the people who looked up to him, the companies he’d created. His body language changed—he went from feeling small to feeling like Superman. When he went back to talk to women, he was confident, engaging, and didn’t fear rejection. And this time, he had no problem making a connection. I didn’t give him any lines or routines—just a mental shift.
If you approach someone feeling nervous, that’s what they’ll see, and they won’t want to engage. But when you walk up confidently, sure of yourself, you become magnetic. We all want the best for ourselves, and if you don’t carry yourself as someone of value, that’s what she’ll perceive.
If you often freeze up around beautiful women, it’s time to change your self-perception. You need to go from “I’m not good enough” to “I’m the best man out there, and she’d be lucky to be with me.” When you feel this way, you’ll have no problem approaching any woman, knowing you’re a prize.
You might be thinking, “But I’m not a CEO. I don’t have millions. I’m not great-looking.” Here’s the truth: being great isn’t about money, looks, or age. It’s about your self-belief and how you carry yourself.
I’ve seen clients with physical challenges or financial struggles transform simply by changing their mindset. They became the kind of men who could attract women effortlessly because they focused on their inner value, not external limitations.
Here’s a powerful exercise: Make a list of everything great about yourself. Every morning and night, spend five minutes going over this list, visualizing and truly feeling it. Doing this consistently will replace your negative programming with positive thinking. Over time, this will alter your aura, making you naturally attractive.
Before you go out, take a minute to focus on your strengths. Think about what makes you great, better than other guys, and how lucky any woman would be to meet you. When you walk up to her, don’t worry about knowing exactly what to say. Instead, carry that confidence, and your energy will make an impact.
Weekend after weekend, I help men shift from being timid and unsure to confident and powerful. If you want a shortcut, you can join a workshop where I’ll teach you the skills and mindset shifts that make you naturally magnetic. In just two days, you’ll go from a guy who freezes to a man who can fearlessly approach any woman with confidence and charm.
Until Next Time!
Magic Leone
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Magic!
Thank you so much for sharing your videos.
I actually ended up getting an One Night Stand right afterwatching your DVDs.
Seemed to work really well haha.
My handle is XXX if you want to read the report. Please let me know what you schedule is going to be like afteryou return from visiting your family.
I’d really like to schedule one of your training sessions.
Thanks again,
– Chris
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Thanks Magic! I made love with a girl this weekend who was my friend from long time.
With my new look and aggressiveness i think i was able to come out the safe guy mode.
You changed my life!
Sai Manohar
Hi Magic, I can’t begin to tell you how much I’ve learned from you so far.
I’ve read ‘social mastery’ watched the social circle DVD’s and had a 30 minute phone call with you.
All of this has made a big difference.
I had my first ‘back to back’ two weeks ago where I slept with two different girls for the first time. One of them was 25, which is really the age category I find myself attracted to (I’m 32).
Thanks,
-George
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I tried several aspects of social circle game just for one night at a dance club to see what happened.
After about 2 hours I realized that I could have slept with at least 5 or 6 girls just that night. It was ridiculous. And then I ran into a gorgeous 5’10” eastern bloc model with strawberry blonde hair and amazing bone structure named Natalia.
I used various techniques from your system. The next thing I knew she was dragging me outside to hail a cab back to her loft. The sex was incredible, sex usually is but what made this time so perfect, so gratifying was I wasn’t at the mercy of who was interested in me.
-Cole
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After getting your online book I had a girl take me home that weekend and now two weeks later another. While I’m slowly learning all you teach I think your book gave me the confidence to push through my social barriers that had built up via being more physical sooner, more playful and showing more direct interest. 🙂
Thanks keep up the amazing work and fresh perspective on the game.
-Ivan
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Hey Magic,
Life keeps getting more awesome! I wanted to let you know about the last time I went out.
I have several social circles that I know there along with seeing random friends there all the time. When I went last week I met one of Julies friends, Liz (very cute)who was very interested in me.
I was also talking to a girl (also very cute) from another group of friends and I had a feeling she was interested in me as well. Toward the end of the night I had both girls who were leaving with their friends trying to get me to go with them.
I basically had to decide which girl I wanted to take home that night. That was one of the best problems I have ever had! Liz, the girl I choose is very Bi and I think that could lead to more good things!
And I left things well with the other girl so that is still an option later. That night there was a lot of girls making out with girls and having three way kisses with me and 2 girls. It was a good night!
Talk to ya later
-Danny
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Hi Magic,
Everything you teach about dating and seduction fucking works.I met this girl at a mall . We decided to hangout the next day. She texted me the next day to confirm if we were still on for the date. This has never happened to me before.
She was nervous and told me that she never goes out with random guys on a date. I told her that I was nervous as well and then took her hand and put it on my chest to feel my heartbeat (I got this from your video Magic).
She was so turned on that she started kissing me and man it was awesome. She gave me the best kisses I ever got. She was licking my neck, ears and was kissing me wildly. She even caught my manhood and she could not stop herself.
I took her to my place right after this. I told her to masturbate in the car on the way to my place (This was the first time that I ever used it,and it fucking works like magic) She totally went with it. Use your imagination after this !!!!!
Thanks again MAGIC!!!!
RESPECT BRO…….
James!!!!
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Before I heard about you, I had literally spent years trying to make myself an attractive guy and had made very little progress.
I was focusing on all the wrong things. I was wasting my time in bars all over the city, because at that time, it felt like a job.
After I was introduced to your method , I just felt better about talking to women. I felt like there might be some progress that was happening or was about to happen.
Shortly after that, I met a woman. With the ideas you taught running through my head, I was able to be relaxed and fun enough that we ended up sleeping together right away.
Only a few weeks after she and I met, we admitted to one another that we were in love with each other.
I say “admitted” because we’d begun the relationship with the understanding that we would not get attached. She was married and I was more interested in being single.
That was over a year and a half ago. She and I are still together. She’s separated from her husband, whom I’ve met (he’s a pretty cool guy). Her mother knows about me and supports my girlfriend’s decisions. I’ll be meeting her very soon.
I hope I’ve made it clear that none of this would have happened without you. You taught me how to show my best self to the world.
You taught me how to recognize the opportunities that come my way. Most importantly, you taught me to believe that I deserve all of this.
Your work helped me develop a sense of self-worth that I didn’t even know I was missing. Thank you for that.
-Donovan
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Social Circle Dating is not a very good title for this product. Honestly, it’s a shit title. It should be called Life According to Magic.
When the video begins, Magic gives a brief overview of the topics he’s going to cover and it all sounds like exactly what you would expect: making friends, dating and sleeping with women in your social circle, dating and befriending co-workers, etc.
All of these things are explored in such depth and detail as to put Dale Carnegie to shame.
It soon becomes clear that Magic hasn’t produced a video about building and managing a social circle; he has put to record what, to my knowledge, is the most comprehensive overview of his knowledge, attitudes and perspectives.
By the end of the video, he’s no longer talking about making friends and getting laid; he’s telling you what it takes to be happy.
If you buy any one product from Magic, this should be it.
-Aaron
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Recently Met An ActressI want to thank you. You’re DVDs changed my life, and it is still on going.
I live in Korea, and it still works here.
I’ve been practicing with your stuff, I had succeeded with the 10s. Not even 9s, not 9.5s but 10s. Friends are amused of what I’ve done and doing.
Recently I met this ’10’ girl, who is an actress. Of course she is beautiful, and I wanted to know her better as I met her again and again so we’ve been dating for about a month.
We ended up making out, and I didn’t go any further than that. After that I walked her home, and said goodbye. I was happy that we are going to be in a relationship.
We made a short phone call(She called me to ask if I was back home well.) than slept.
Will update you soon!
-Kim
