Why You Are Afraid To Approach Women In Public

Good men spend their entire lives in fear.

If you are this guy, you probably freeze when you see a beautiful woman you would like to be with. You want to talk to her so bad but you just cannot figure out what to say or do that will work. So you just stay and watch her walk away.

When you like a woman in your network, you probably end up having long platonic conversations with her instead of flirting with her and asking her to go on a date with you.

You prefer becoming friends with a woman first because it is safer. It reduces the risk of rejection. You can now spend time with her and if you think she likes you too then maybe you can ask her out else just stay friends with her.

“You rather watch her painfully date another man than taking a chance to make her yours.”

This happens because to you going after a woman is risky. What if she says no? What if others find out she said no? What happens if she yells or insults? What happens if she has a boyfriend and he shows up?

What You Should Do Instead

What you should be doing instead is to approach the woman you like right away. It does not matter whether you saw her walking on the street, sitting at a cafe, in a bar, in your class, or at work. This is a woman who caught your eye. There is something special about her. You desire to be with her so do not hold back.

Walk up to her right away. Tell her she is beautiful. Look in her eyes and say I want to know you. Then ask her to join you on an instant date or make plans for later.

Enjoy her beauty and her intellect when you are with her. Ask her questions that reveal who she is.

Compliment her on things you like about her, touch her, play with her hair, hold her hands, kiss her, and create a romantic connection with her.

Make her feel good to be in your company. Make her want to be with you. (Watch the Attraction Bible Course if you need tips on how to do this.)

If your interaction fizzles at any point, walk away gracefully - no big deal!

Here is the thing, if you feel your life is good the way it is, then it is fine.

But if you feel you lose a lot of opportunities not just in dating but in other areas of life as well, then it is time to do something about it.

When you see a woman you like and your default programing is to not approach her, then you need to do something about it.

If you are with a woman you like but you hold back on flirting instead become friends with her, if you are afraid to ask her out for a date, afraid to kiss her and get intimate with her – you absolutely need to do something about it.

You need to change your mental and muscle programming. You need to change your belief and value system.

How long will you watch beautiful women only from a distance? How long will you watch beautiful women after beautiful women dating other men but not you?

The key to being happy is not achieving success but going after things that are important to you.

What you need to understand is that playing safe is way more painful than taking a chance.

You hurt yourself every day by not going after the woman you like.

If you can replace this with the attitude to not hesitate and go after every woman you like, not only will you feel great about your actions, you will soon end up with a beautiful woman.

What I am trying to tell you is that you need to change your focus. Winning is not ending up with a great woman. Winning is going after a woman every time you want to.

And if you feel unprepared then build a quick game plan. Learn a few conversation pieces, attraction pieces, confidence pieces that you can use every time you meet a woman you like.

Learn ways to make romantic eye contact, ways to ask her to join you on an instant date, ways, to ask her in front of everyone boldly, ways to walk away gracefully if she is with someone else or not interested, learn ways to initiate the touch, to go for the first kiss, to create a connection.

Once you are prepared, start going after every woman you like instead of avoiding them. Watch how your confidence and happiness will grow when you become this person. And watch how you will end up with a beautiful woman in no time.

Had One Night Stand After Watching DVDs


Thank you so much for sharing your videos.

I actually ended up getting an One Night Stand right afterwatching your DVDs.

Seemed to work really well haha.

My handle is XXX if you want to read the report. Please let me know what you schedule is going to be like afteryou return from visiting your family.

I’d really like to schedule one of your training sessions.

Thanks again,
– Chris
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Made Love With A Girl Who Was My Long-Time Friend!

Thanks Magic! I made love with a girl this weekend who was my friend from long time.

With my new look and aggressiveness i think i was able to come out the safe guy mode.

You changed my life!
Sai Manohar

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Slept With Two Different Girls Back To Back!

Hi Magic, I can’t begin to tell you how much I’ve learned from you so far.

I’ve read ‘social mastery’ watched the social circle DVD’s and had a 30 minute phone call with you.

All of this has made a big difference.

I had my first ‘back to back’ two weeks ago where I slept with two different girls for the first time. One of them was 25, which is really the age category I find myself attracted to (I’m 32).

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Pulled 5’10” Eastern Bloc Model Home The Same Night Using This System!

I tried several aspects of social circle game just for one night at a dance club to see what happened.

After about 2 hours I realized that I could have slept with at least 5 or 6 girls just that night. It was ridiculous. And then I ran into a gorgeous 5’10” eastern bloc model with strawberry blonde hair and amazing bone structure named Natalia.

I used various techniques from your system. The next thing I knew she was dragging me outside to hail a cab back to her loft. The sex was incredible, sex usually is but what made this time so perfect, so gratifying was I wasn’t at the mercy of who was interested in me.

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I Had A Girl Take Me Home That Weekend And Now Two Weeks Later Another!

After getting your online book I had a girl take me home that weekend and now two weeks later another. While I’m slowly learning all you teach I think your book gave me the confidence to push through my social barriers that had built up via being more physical sooner, more playful and showing more direct interest. 🙂

Thanks keep up the amazing work and fresh perspective on the game.

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Girls Were Having Three Way Kisses With Me And Wanted To Take Me Home

Hey Magic,

Life keeps getting more awesome! I wanted to let you know about the last time I went out.

I have several social circles that I know there along with seeing random friends there all the time. When I went last week I met one of Julies friends, Liz (very cute)who was very interested in me.

I was also talking to a girl (also very cute) from another group of friends and I had a feeling she was interested in me as well. Toward the end of the night I had both girls who were leaving with their friends trying to get me to go with them.

I basically had to decide which girl I wanted to take home that night. That was one of the best problems I have ever had! Liz, the girl I choose is very Bi and I think that could lead to more good things!

And I left things well with the other girl so that is still an option later. That night there was a lot of girls making out with girls and having three way kisses with me and 2 girls. It was a good night!

Talk to ya later

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Had Sex The Same Night With A Girl I Met At A Shopping Mall

Hi Magic,

Everything you teach about dating and seduction fucking works.I met this girl at a mall . We decided to hangout the next day. She texted me the next day to confirm if we were still on for the date. This has never happened to me before.

She was nervous and told me that she never goes out with random guys on a date. I told her that I was nervous as well and then took her hand and put it on my chest to feel my heartbeat (I got this from your video Magic).

She was so turned on that she started kissing me and man it was awesome. She gave me the best kisses I ever got. She was licking my neck, ears and was kissing me wildly. She even caught my manhood and she could not stop herself.

I took her to my place right after this. I told her to masturbate in the car on the way to my place (This was the first time that I ever used it,and it fucking works like magic) She totally went with it. Use your imagination after this !!!!!

Thanks again MAGIC!!!!
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Dating Married Woman Who Left Her Husband For Me!

Before I heard about you, I had literally spent years trying to make myself an attractive guy and had made very little progress.

I was focusing on all the wrong things. I was wasting my time in bars all over the city, because at that time, it felt like a job.

After I was introduced to your method , I just felt better about talking to women. I felt like there might be some progress that was happening or was about to happen.

Shortly after that, I met a woman. With the ideas you taught running through my head, I was able to be relaxed and fun enough that we ended up sleeping together right away.

Only a few weeks after she and I met, we admitted to one another that we were in love with each other.

I say “admitted” because we’d begun the relationship with the understanding that we would not get attached. She was married and I was more interested in being single.

That was over a year and a half ago. She and I are still together. She’s separated from her husband, whom I’ve met (he’s a pretty cool guy). Her mother knows about me and supports my girlfriend’s decisions. I’ll be meeting her very soon.

I hope I’ve made it clear that none of this would have happened without you. You taught me how to show my best self to the world.

You taught me how to recognize the opportunities that come my way. Most importantly, you taught me to believe that I deserve all of this.

Your work helped me develop a sense of self-worth that I didn’t even know I was missing. Thank you for that.
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“Magic Put Dale Carnegie To Shame”

Social Circle Dating is not a very good title for this product. Honestly, it’s a shit title. It should be called Life According to Magic.

When the video begins, Magic gives a brief overview of the topics he’s going to cover and it all sounds like exactly what you would expect: making friends, dating and sleeping with women in your social circle, dating and befriending co-workers, etc.

All of these things are explored in such depth and detail as to put Dale Carnegie to shame.

It soon becomes clear that Magic hasn’t produced a video about building and managing a social circle; he has put to record what, to my knowledge, is the most comprehensive overview of his knowledge, attitudes and perspectives.

By the end of the video, he’s no longer talking about making friends and getting laid; he’s telling you what it takes to be happy.

If you buy any one product from Magic, this should be it.
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Recently Met An Actress

I want to thank you. You’re DVDs changed my life, and it is still on going.
I live in Korea, and it still works here.

I’ve been practicing with your stuff, I had succeeded with the 10s. Not even 9s, not 9.5s but 10s. Friends are amused of what I’ve done and doing.

Recently I met this ’10’ girl, who is an actress. Of course she is beautiful, and I wanted to know her better as I met her again and again so we’ve been dating for about a month.

We ended up making out, and I didn’t go any further than that. After that I walked her home, and said goodbye. I was happy that we are going to be in a relationship.

We made a short phone call(She called me to ask if I was back home well.) than slept.

Will update you soon!

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