Men make deadly when they approach women!
As a result, their approaches don’t go anywhere.
In addition, they lose confidence, pick up bad habits, and their game takes a serious dive as a result, they struggle for a very long time.
In this video, I tell you what that mistake is why you want to avoid it, and what you need to do instead so approaching is not even a worry for you you can approach women fearlessly initiate a conversation with any woman anywhere, and be able to take that initial conversation their approach to something.
For some reason, many coaches also support this theory that they need to approach a few hundred women to get over their approach anxiety.
Some men even take pride that they’ve approached thousands of women to get better the problem — this is a bad idea!
If you’re approaching women and those interactions are not leading to anything pretty soon you’re going to develop self-doubt.
You are going to think: I approached hundreds of women and didn’t get a single date. You will begin to have self-doubt you will begin to hate the process of meeting women because it’s not leading to anything.
This is a big danger!
Clients come to my workshop feeling beaten down because their approaches did not work.
I have been teaching for over 13 years and have maybe 3-4 clients who had approach anxiety past the first night.
If you fear approaching women you are doing something wrong.
Maybe you have a bad first impression, fashion, conversation piece, energy, or something that is driving women away. Fix this, and you will never struggle approaching women and striking up a conversation with them.
In the TEASE video, I asked the model about her mindset when she goes out. She stated she does not like men approaching her.
I asked what if he is her dream man? She responded by saying she would want him to approach her.
The bottom line, women only want to be approached by cool men.
Your fashion, energy, and eye contact make you desirable. Women then want to talk to you. They will make it easy for you to approach them and will even start a conversation with you.
Figure out a few basics of approaching women like how to initiate a conversation?
What to say when you first meet her?
Hey and hi are the best openers. You can always try situation openers like what are you celebrating, what are you drinking, and so on if you want but they are not needed.
Learn the right approach tactics like approaching women from an angle, never approaching head-on or from behind.
Never approaching in a parking lot, or dark alley.
Always verify their age if you meet them in places like shopping malls where teenagers hang out.
So plan what you’re going to say and where you’re going to meet women.
This is one of the biggest things that guys and even dating coaches don’t get.
If you approach a woman but have no game plan, things won’t go anywhere even if she is interested.
You need to have a game plan like taking her on an instant date, taking her home, or even exchanging phone numbers. (I prefer instant date and taking home. I rarely take phone numbers.)
Once you have an end goal, you know what to say and do next. Without an end goal, you will be lost, stop talking and leave.
Have a strategy for each venue.
If you will meet a woman during the day, plan your approach from meeting to taking her home, including taking her on an instant date, handling objections, and even handling rejections.
If you will be going to bars have a plan to engage her friends as well, persuading them to go to a different venue with you, and letting their friend go home with you or even come with you.
When you know the end goal, your brain will automatically calculate the path and content to make it happen.
You are going to approach women anyways, might as well do it right.
The final step is to identify the problem and overcome it.
This is what I do in my Workshops!
I observe my clients to study where they struggle. I find a lesson that can solve their problem and works for their personality type. Before you know it, they are sleeping with beautiful women.
Do the same.
Identify where you struggle the most then find solutions. If you lose women upon approaching, learn to strengthen your first impression.
If women tell you they have a boyfriend within a few minutes, you need to fix your initial conversation.
If they refuse to go on a date, strengthen your flirting and seduction.
If you keep doing this, you will master seduction in no time.
Hope this helps!